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It’s quite the challenge to make your best friend your girlfriend. This is a life transition that very well could destroy a good thing if it’s not done right.
However, with the following expert pointers you will learn the exact moves to take your friendship to the next level!
No doubt one of the worst experiences in the world is being banished to the friend zone by a girl – Eek!
Often men get stuck deep in the friend zone because they don’t understand how women think and work. And when you learn a little about communicating with a woman, you will figure out crystal clear what you need to see if there is a chance to be more than friends with your now friend.
Everyone seems to be the expert when it comes to taking your friendship to the next level. Some tactics might work for you and others won’t. And when we dig a tad deeper into the psychology of it all, you get that much closer to the answers that will work for you.
Learn the basics to start and build from there because the more knowledge you have about natural attraction and how women think, the better.
WHAT IS THE FRIEND ZONE?
The friend zone is a scenario where one person wants to be more than friends and the other person may or may not be aware of this. It becomes very difficult when nobody knows how to show their true feelings to each other.
In other words, if the guy really wants his friend to be his girlfriend and he doesn’t have the know-how to show her, that’s just trouble for everyone.
Make note that when two people are close together there are bound to be feelings developed. Some just like the physical closeness and others are looking for more romance. And when you get to know someone on a friend level, this just increases the odds of wanting more.
SO HOW COME THE “FRIEND ZONE” JUST HAPPENS?
When you first understand why people wind up in this zone, it’s much easier to figure out how to get out for good.
Some people wind up in the friend zone because they are just too nice. When this happens, the girl might skip right past any of your hints for more because she is so secure in your friend relationship. Her mind probably isn’t open to anything more.
Any relationship involves negotiation and what you need to do in order to get out of the friend zone is to re-negotiate your relationship.
Much easier said than done I know.
You have to figure out how to ask for more from the other person than they are already giving you.
Here are a few tactics you can implement to help balance the scales in your relationship…
HOW TO MAKE YOUR BEST FRIEND YOUR GIRLFRIEND
TECHNIQUE #1 – SHOW HER YOUR MANLY CONFIDENCE!The number one quality a girl looks for in a man is confidence. Girls go crazy gaga when they see a man knows what he wants and is willing to communicate this. Having the ability to make a decision fast is a bright quality that will make or break you in the women department.
So if your “girl” friend asks you what movie you’d like to see, make sure you tell her specifically what you want to see. Don’t be wishy-washy and whatever you do make sure you don’t tell her “whatever you like is fine.”
When you are strong and decisive, this lets a girl know you have what it takes to stand the test of time if that is where the cards dictate. I’m going to leave it at that for now.
TECHNIQUE #2 – STEER CLEAR OF THE CLINGY
If you are seriously looking to capture the undivided attention of your friend, to move it to the next level, you most certainly can’t be all over her.
It shows you are needy and suffocating, and have no other options. Harsh but true.
Girls like a strong man that has confidence in himself and doesn’t need a sweet thing beside him to validate him. That’s the truth stone cold.
If you really want your friend to be more than that, you will need to show her you are fine on your own but would love to have her by your side. It’s a fine line I know but whatever you do, please don’t be Mr. Clingy.
Give her some special attention and leave it at that, and you will get exactly what you want.
TECHNIQUE #3 – TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
At some point you need to jump in with both feet, and let this girl you like know you are ready to make her your girl. You need to tell her that you want to be more than friends and more importantly you need to show her.
Either she is on board or she’s not.
Psychology Today experts say if you stay too close to someone as a “friend” without uncovering your romantic interest, you are risking them believing you will only ever be friends.
If you are really going to make her your girlfriend, you’ve got to have to take action to show her. Reach out and hold her hand, hug her extra long, or maybe just kiss her one night.
Don’t hold back or you just might be sorry.
Enough is never enough when it comes to proven tactics to sway your best friend to be your girl. Here are a few more techniques to take action with.
According to Self Growth experts, there are oodles of different sensible tactics you can exercise in order to let your present friend know you want so much more.
You may be suffering from a major headache right now if you are trying to swing your girl…friend, out of the friend zone and into girlfriend status.
Beware that falling head over heels for a friend is really quite normal and you need to understand that if it’s what you want then you really need to go for it.
So stop feeling sad or “cursed” about this and look for the bright side. Turn your tune optimistic please and good things will happen.
TECHNIQUE #4 – MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL
When you want to shift from friend to more than friends, you are going to have to start changing your behavior towards her. Make her feel and see that you want to clearly be more than friends. That’s a good place to start.
Start acting a touch more flirty with her, possessive and protective. Remind her how special she is by telling her that she is pretty, smart and strong, you know what I’m getting at.
When you treat her differently and make her see you are acting differently around her, then you’ll open her mind to the romantic side of things, and that’s just plain magical.
TECHNIQUE #5 – TRY NOT TO RUN TO HER 24/7
When a guy is available 24/7 that’s a turn-off. It just means he has nothing better to do or he just plain lacks the confidence to know what he wants and how to get it.
Just think cheesy and you’re on the right track.
It’s VIP you make your friend miss you if you want them to open up to being romantic with you at some point. When she is consciously and unconsciously thinking of you, she is naturally going to miss you when you are nowhere to be found.
All you need to do is sneak away from time to time. This means you aren’t answering her calls or text messages either. Do whatever you need to in order make her curious what you are up to.
TECHNIQUE #6 – SHOOT THE COMPLIMENTS UNEXPECTEDLY
When a girl is flattered out of the blue, it catches her off guard and that works wonders for her confidence and curiosity. Women like surprises from time to time so don’t be afraid to hug her close, hold her hand, or tell what you love about her just because.
Practice being spontaneous and impulsive. You never know unless you try!
TECHNIQUE #7 – MAKE IT HABIT TO SEND HER NICE THINGS
This is where you need to do a little creative thinking if you are going to successfully woo your friend to girlfriend status. Girls like gifts and they don’t have to be large and expensive. On the flip side, you might want to steer clear of the standard flowers and chocolates.
Take a vested interest in knowing what she likes and take advantage of having this wealth of insider information to wow her. This reminds her that you are paying attention and you want to make her smile from the inside out.
That’s just plain magical any way you look at it.
TECHNIQUE #8 – TAKE A STAB AT GRABBING HER HAND
If you are trying to show her you want more and she just doesn’t seem to be getting it, you might need to step it up a notch or three.
How about grabbing her hand?
This one will take a little guts and determination but it will give her the clear message that you don’t just want a friendship, that you want more.
Make sure you hold it for at least 3 seconds so she knows it’s not a “friendly” hand holding session. It’s worth a try, don’t you think?
TECHNIQUE #9 – DECREASE YOUR INTEREST IN HER
When you show less interest in the things she is doing and saying , you will trigger the “want” from her. She’s going to want more because you are suddenly giving her less.
If you are being too needy, that means you are giving her too much and you’ll have a tough time convincing her you have value and that she should give you more.
TECHNIQUE #10 – MANIFEST COMPETITION – EVEN IF IT’S FAKE
It’s important you let her know there is competition out there, other women that want you. Try going out with other friends that you are attracted to and expand your social network.
Then when you are ready, report back to her because in her mind you are just “friends,” right?
This one is a little sneaky but it does work wonders.
TECHNIQUE #11 – ENSURE THEY HAVE A VESTED INTEREST IN YOU
In order to do this, you need to convince her to do special things for you. Girls like doing favors for boys because it gives them special value.
Truth be told…The more they are investing in your relationship, the more they are going to want from you and that’s magical when you are trying to shift your relationship to the next level and beyond.
TECHNIQUE #12 – DON’T FORGET TO REWARD HER
Everyone wants to feel special, loved, and appreciated. So when your friend does things for you, make sure they know you appreciate it.
When you do this, you are once again creating the need for validation and attention, and that’s awesome when you want to be more than friends.
Encourage them to continue on with these behaviors and they’re going to get used to it fast. And when they do, you are opening the door of opportunity to become more than just buds with this special friend.
FINAL WORDS
When you are looking to make your friend your special other, there’s no easy or direct route. It’s going to be a bit of a trial and error process. However, when you use these proven tips, tricks and strategies you will be able to create your master plan to seal the deal.
Time for you to step up to the plate and take action to get what you want and deserve.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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Signs you are dating a mammy water: This is for all the guys who pick up random girls on the streets without knowing anything about them. Here’s how to know if you are sharing your bed with a mammy water:

  • You picked her up from the street or some other random place. Maybe she was even standing in front of an uncompleted building..
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  • You don’t know her surname. She told you her name is “ Just Julie”..
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  • She agreed to sleep with you on the very first day, in fact she moved into your house, no questions asked.
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  • She never gets tired. She can pound yam, fry garri, grind pepper with a stone and still sleep with you when she finishes.
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  • She always looks perfect, even first thing in the morning. No pimples, her make-up looks permanent and everything is always in the right place.
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  • Her Brazilian hair looks natural. It really looks like her hair but maybe salons have found a way to remove natural hair and put it back later.
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  • She never talks about her family and she doesn’t have any friends. You only hear her saying “My sea sisters” sometimes at night but you’re not bothered because girls call themselves all sorts of things.
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  • Ever since you started sleeping with her, your life has turned upside down but of course your stepmother in the village is to blame.
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  • She has stopped you from eating fish. Ever since she came into your life, it’s only chicken or meat, nothing that comes from the sea.
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  • She doesn’t ask you for anything. In fact, she’s every Nigerian boyfriend’s dream. You don’t pay for human hair or internet subscriptions and she doesn’t even want iPhone.  She doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day and you don’t even know her birthday sef. She never gets jealous or goes through your phone and she couldn’t care less about your Facebook password. In fact she’s the best!
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If the girl you’re with falls into all these categories, you better wake up my guy, NA FISH SHE BE!!!

 

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Boyfriend With These 7 Beautiful Qualities, Please Marry Him

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Sometimes, the perfect guy is right in front of you and you, shrouded by all your brittle insecurities and hovering fears are reluctant to go the extra mile with him. Your past has scarred you so badly that you don’t know what to believe. You can’t seem to trust the truth in someone’s words. You think that Love is a lie and something that does not exist for everyone. Well, if you don’t believe in something, you will never be able to find it. Take a risk, it might destroy you but isn’t life all about self-destruction? People die and resurrect every day from the ashes of their past. If you have a boyfriend who does the following things, you should definitely hold on to him forever. Trust him to be the guy who touches your naked soul and makes you feel alive.

1. He fights for you at times when you don’t even want to fight for yourself

If you ever find such a guy who chooses you every day even when you think that you are not worth someone’s love, please wake up from your slumber and realize what you have before it’s too late. Sometimes people don’t believe in themselves until a certain someone starts believing in them.

2. He is your home!

What is a home? A home is not a construct; it is much more than that. Home is place where you belong. You can travel around the globe but at the end of the day you will return to that one place where you will feel safe. Some relationships have to face hardships and people have to live apart from each other. Things can become very hard and distance is detrimental for a healthy relationship. However, if you feel, in your heart that without this guy’s warm embrace, you will always feel lost, then he is your home. No distance in this world can keep you apart from each other. You have a much deeper emotional connection.

He makes you feel secure and safe around him. He makes you feel secure about your surroundings. When we are at our home, we can eat what we want, we can blabber weird stuff and we can be ourselves. When you do all those things around a guy and he still loves you then you’ve got a keeper. You should feel lucky.

3. He loves your originality

Sometimes, there are guys who will try to change you. They want you to be someone who is acceptable to the society. Someone that is acceptable to the society. They have no regard for your originality whatsoever. They just want you to be a clich and they want you to adapt yourself to the societal stereotypes.

Every person is a different person. They all have their own weird stuff and unorthodox behavior and no one should be allowed to change that. If you have a guy who accepts you for who you are and doesn’t compel you to be someone else just for the sake of acceptance from this judgmental society, he is someone you can grow with. He is someone you can put your trust in. He is not someone you just push away just because you feel that what he’s doing is real. Sometimes our whole lives turn out to be a lie because we are reluctant to accept the truth when it reveals itself.

When a relationship starts, it’s all sunshine and rainbows. There a lot of things that you don’t know about the other person. Every human has subjective curiosity but when we know about a person completely, we start to lose interest. When there’s nothing left to talk about, we get bored and the relationship just becomes a dull routine. However, if you have someone in your life whom you can share your silence with, trust me, you have something that people search for their whole lives but are never able to grasp it.

When he can talk to you with his eyes and listen to you when you’re not even uttering a word, you have finally found someone who can tolerate you for the rest of your life. You are just sitting next to each other and there is this sweet comfortable silence and you are in love with their presence, which is what true love is. Love is not about saying the right things or being a sweet talker, love transcend any logical explanation and nothing is rational about finding happiness in someone’s silence.

5. No fight or argument is stronger than the relationship

We all know that there are fights in a relationship. Everyone has their own different opinions and two people in a relationship will not always agree on everything. They are not meant to. I have met many girls who say that they love their boyfriend because he agrees with them on everything they say. That is just nonsense. There will be arguments and there will be a lot of screaming and shouting. When your boyfriend knows when to stop and is aware that if he crosses this thin line, he will do irreparable damage to your relationship and sacrifices his ego for the relationship, he truly does love you.

He doesn’t care about some small thing that incited him. He doesn’t want to verbally or emotionally abuse you ever. He apologizes to you even though it wasn’t his fault because he can’t stay mad at you for long. It is truly a beautiful thing when someone kills his own ego for the one person he loves. It is a very romantic gesture and not many people are capable of it. You should never take such a person for granted and love him with all your heart because he deserves it. He has worked for your love for years and it’s not easy for him at times and he needs your support.

6. His Love is unconditional

There is no emotional blackmail in love. When someone loves you, they accept you with all their heart. They don’t make you beg and take you for granted. If a guy loves you despite your imperfections, he knows the true meaning of love. Some people just frustrate other people without any reason.

They don’t make you feel wanted. They always give you mixed signals. Sometimes relationships are just based on lust. If the guy feels horny, he will become a whole other person and love you and entice you. He will fool you into thinking that he really does love you. However, if you don’t fulfil his sexual desires, he will pour the blame on you and make himself the victim. If a guy loves you unconditionally and isn’t just there with you for his own personal desires, he loves you more than you can imagine.

7. He makes you a part of his life

Everyone needs privacy and personal space. In a relationship, we all know that in order for our individuality to grow, we have to look after ourselves from time to time and our partner should allow that. However, we shouldn’t just disconnect our partner from everything in our lives. We shouldn’t make major decisions of our life without even consulting our partner. If a guy tries to adjust you in his life and makes an effort to make the people he loves adapt around you, he wants you with himself for a very long time. He sees a future in which you two are together. He doesn’t make major choices of his life without thinking about you.

He knows that his life choices will directly affect your life and he doesn’t want to force you into a life which wasn’t based on mutual consent. He knows that your opinion and your decisions matter as much as his and he would never take a step without taking advice from you. He knows that you are his confidant and you wouldn’t want anything that would make you two have regrets in the future. A guy who wants you for an eternity has all these qualities but most of all he has faith in you. He has faith in you when no one else really does. It’s because people don’t know you like he does.

They just know as much about you as you permit to reveal about yourself in front of them your guy knows that even if at times when you fall short, he will be there to help you out. He does not fear the struggles of life. The only thing he fears is that maybe someday you will drift away from him. Sometimes, these thoughts just pop up in his mind out of nowhere and you need to make him believe that this is not true. These are just misconceptions and you are going to prove them wrong together. Whatever it takes, you are going to face.

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