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I know many ladies will like to read this, but don’t blame men o, life itself is hard.

Well, there are series of reasons some men have refused to leave the single life alone for small boys, i know you know some, here are few of those reasons i can think of as at the time of this post.

1. Financial Ground

It is never easy to rule the home without the cash, despite the hardness many men still think they must store that millions before settling down, however, they are those you will find in bars, hotels and the likes after working hours wasting part of the money they should have kept doing fine boy; with such attitude i just wonder when the millions will complete.

Meanwhile, they have one lady they keep wasting her time, asking her to continue praying for divine favour so that they can take her to the altar.  Some men, no matter how hard they try things still get harder, no stable job or anything, i wouldn’t blame those who fall in this category.

At times we can’t blame these men with the kind attitude our ladies portray this days.

2. Observing The Lady

Some guys don’t actually know what they want, they place lady under observation, if you ask them what’s up they will reply with their usual verbiage, “i am still observing her jare”, this is not because of finance or any other thing, but because they want to explore everything explorable.

After they have done everything they should have done inside marriage while courting they will now look for excuse to discharge the innocent babe… There is God o.

3. Parental Influence

There are many of these guys that will never learn how to take decisions on their own even after 30 years of age, their parent instruct them on everything to do, meanwhile, some of these our parents are selfish, they want to keep having all your resources for themselves thinking you will lose that financial concentration on them to the lady, hence, they will keep condemning all your choices, non will be better till you open ya eyes.

No one is saying you shouldn’t obey some of this kind of parents, but we have to know how to play the game so as to make it all balance, once you decide they will not have option than to follow you, but there will be problem if the cash isn’t going their way, that us where you need to know how to deal with it all.

4. The Big Boy Gang

Those in this category will never marry till very late 30s and early 40s. They want to enjoy the wealth before they decide finally. They are the ones all the big girls around knows, they are those that will be spraying money where they are not needed just to remain relevant in irrelevant places.

The money to wed or to spend when the woman is home isn’t their problem a bit. They usually say it is better to enjoy the wealth before they are caged, meanwhile after they get married they still go back to those things secretly, they are those that must not hear their wife speak with a man let alone hugging the man.

5. They Don’t See Anything Special

This is one reason some men don’t marry till very late. They never see anything special in any woman no matter what she is or how she looks.

You will keep seeing them with different ladies as they get tired of one easily. They are the kind ladies keep following about, yet, nothing good in any of them. At the end they will either be compelled to get married or one be forced on them. At times they will not also have choice than to take the lady to the altar after the lady has mistakenly been put in the family way.

6. Religious Ground

One big reason some men will not get married till their religious leader can’t bear it any more is because of their over belief.

To them, for any lady to appeal to their senses such lady must share same belief with them. Their faith has covered every sense of their reasoning, hence, they expect you to be perfect. They are quick to condemn the cloth, makeup, choice of words and the like to the extent that nothing you do is perfect and inline with religious teaching.

These kind of men understands the Bible than their pastor, they don’t have the time to give room for mistake, their kind can never be God as they are ready to throw anyone in the fire even before they commit sin.

With those attitude they can never get married until they are forced or raped.

7. Village People

Lol, there are many men out there that because of their sin or that of their fore-fathers or even immediate parents they will be cursed.

At times, those village people might have seen that when he gets married his finance will turnaround, they will just change everything for him, people around him will just notice he keeps hating every lady that are supposed to be best for him.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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BE WARNED! HERE ARE 5 SURE SIGNS THAT YOU MIGHT LOOSE YOUR PARTNER TO THEIR EX

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All relationships do not end at the altar. There might even be more relationships that failed to reach that landmark than relationships that do.

Point is, relationships end all the time, and when they do, it is not the end of the world. One would have to dust it off and move on to the next.

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However, some people never really dust off the memories of their exes or get over the feeling of being with that person before trying to go be with someone else.

When you get with someone who has yet to move on from an ex; this is how you will know. The partner who compares you to an ex might not have moved on from that ex

1. The won’t shut up about them

This is likely the most blatant pointer to the presence of residual feelings for an ex. When someone you are in a relationship with keep speaking about their ex and the things they had with them, it gets awkward and it’s often likely that they are still pining for him or her.

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That is not to say they can’t even mention them here and there. Incidental mentions shouldn’t be any trouble. It is the incessant, recurrent name dropping that’s often problematic.

2. Comparisons

Imagine a partner talking about how better their ex was, right to your face. Crazy, right? It is both disrespectful for a partner to do this and it’s just as bad for them to insinuate that you are a level below that other person.

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Even if it’s true, it still isn’t something to be said. If your partner doesn’t even care about you and feels OK with making you feel less than their ex, it could be another way to know that they rate them higher than you and may low-key still be wishing they were with that person rather than you.

Building new memories with your partner are different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

3. They still talk. A lot.

This is also another uncomfortable thing to deal with in a relationship, no matter how you view it. Although some people manage to remain friends with their exes and that may be acceptable by their partners depending on the nuances of the breakup and the present relationship.

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Regardless of this, having a partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

4. Always defensive of the ex

On this, Weena Cullins, a licensed clinical marriage and family therapist and relationship expert, tells INSIDER that “if someone constantly feels the need to defend their ex, specifically at times when their ex isn’t the centre of conversation it could mean that they aren’t quite over them.”

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If they won’t create and enforce boundaries when it comes to the ex, too, it is something to be bothered about. No ex should have access to your partner as if they are still together.

A partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

5. Make your relationship an extension of the previous one

Tara Vossenkemper, a therapist and the founder and clinical director of The Counseling Hub, Columbia, South Carolina says “if your partner keeps trying to get you to do very specific things and then saying things like, ‘that’s what me and [ex] used to do,’ then you need to take pause.”

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She tells Bustle further that “building new memories with your partner is different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

“One is meaningful and organic. The other is sad and full of baggage.”

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3 things a good guy won’t do to the woman he loves

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When a guy loves you, there are some things he cannot do to you, especially if they’ll hurt your feelings.

Register with Helabet and get double your first deposit – up to KES 10,000!Here is a list of things that good guysdon’t do to the women they love.

1. Puts destructive habits before you

A person who is addicted to something can never put their partner first.

This is because they will always choose their addictive habits over their partners.

However, when it comes to good guys, they know that such behaviour is self-destructive, and will focus their energy on making the relationship work.

2. He pressures you to do things for him that you don’t feel comfortable doing

There are guys who will always pressure their women to do things for them even without consulting them and finding out if they are comfortable doing them or not.

However, good men will never pressure their women into doing something they aren’t comfortable doing. This is because they respect their women as well as their choices and opinions.

3. Ignoring or neglecting you

Some men have a tendency of ignoring and not caring about their women.

However, a good man will never ignore you and will always strive to give you the care and attention that you deserve. A good guy will always invest in the relationship and will work towards making you happy.

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