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Below Are The Reasons Some Nigerian Ladies Don’t Get Married:

1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure- it is so disheartening
how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from
morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home
chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the
role of women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at
destroying the unique African family setting that
made our previous African marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how
do you expect a African man to desire to marry when
he knows he is only buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-
minded men off- if you have observed, you will
discover that most men dislike excessive makeup,
and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often
times discourage their true loved ones to do away
with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many
men will applaud and complement you for looking
like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but
if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple
and natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded, except you are still living in your
high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick &
Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a
lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with
un serious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You
Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married
without contributing anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that
way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that
you can be a value and also add value to his life to
convince him that you are worth committing to.
Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or
material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best
friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not
just being a liability that only bring requests and
problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to
find a husband when you still allow your clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy
of your love and which is not? When will you wake up
and face the fact that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to be,
especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all
cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain
things or privileges they had been constantly denied
while being single. Such privileges include and not
limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good
food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man
gets even the best and of course more of constant
s*x, good food and excellent home-keeping more
than his married counterparts, so tell me how the
hell you want him to desire to marry you when you
have given him virtually everything he desires from a
wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to
cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc
once he marries you, so why would he not want you
to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to
look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys,
you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact
you look more whorish than modest; more
unattractive than attractive, and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress high school,
only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to
you, and if you dress excessively sexy and
provocative, only randy men will come to you for
urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge, so
don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of
dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you
wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for
a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty
girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both
the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would stay or
run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order
words, do away with nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality
of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie
devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies
today, please do away with it.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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BE WARNED! HERE ARE 5 SURE SIGNS THAT YOU MIGHT LOOSE YOUR PARTNER TO THEIR EX

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All relationships do not end at the altar. There might even be more relationships that failed to reach that landmark than relationships that do.

Point is, relationships end all the time, and when they do, it is not the end of the world. One would have to dust it off and move on to the next.

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However, some people never really dust off the memories of their exes or get over the feeling of being with that person before trying to go be with someone else.

When you get with someone who has yet to move on from an ex; this is how you will know. The partner who compares you to an ex might not have moved on from that ex

1. The won’t shut up about them

This is likely the most blatant pointer to the presence of residual feelings for an ex. When someone you are in a relationship with keep speaking about their ex and the things they had with them, it gets awkward and it’s often likely that they are still pining for him or her.

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That is not to say they can’t even mention them here and there. Incidental mentions shouldn’t be any trouble. It is the incessant, recurrent name dropping that’s often problematic.

2. Comparisons

Imagine a partner talking about how better their ex was, right to your face. Crazy, right? It is both disrespectful for a partner to do this and it’s just as bad for them to insinuate that you are a level below that other person.

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Even if it’s true, it still isn’t something to be said. If your partner doesn’t even care about you and feels OK with making you feel less than their ex, it could be another way to know that they rate them higher than you and may low-key still be wishing they were with that person rather than you.

Building new memories with your partner are different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

3. They still talk. A lot.

This is also another uncomfortable thing to deal with in a relationship, no matter how you view it. Although some people manage to remain friends with their exes and that may be acceptable by their partners depending on the nuances of the breakup and the present relationship.

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Regardless of this, having a partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

4. Always defensive of the ex

On this, Weena Cullins, a licensed clinical marriage and family therapist and relationship expert, tells INSIDER that “if someone constantly feels the need to defend their ex, specifically at times when their ex isn’t the centre of conversation it could mean that they aren’t quite over them.”

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If they won’t create and enforce boundaries when it comes to the ex, too, it is something to be bothered about. No ex should have access to your partner as if they are still together.

A partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

5. Make your relationship an extension of the previous one

Tara Vossenkemper, a therapist and the founder and clinical director of The Counseling Hub, Columbia, South Carolina says “if your partner keeps trying to get you to do very specific things and then saying things like, ‘that’s what me and [ex] used to do,’ then you need to take pause.”

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She tells Bustle further that “building new memories with your partner is different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

“One is meaningful and organic. The other is sad and full of baggage.”

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things a good guy won’t do to the woman he loves

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3 things a good guy won’t do to the woman he loves

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When a guy loves you, there are some things he cannot do to you, especially if they’ll hurt your feelings.

Register with Helabet and get double your first deposit – up to KES 10,000!Here is a list of things that good guysdon’t do to the women they love.

1. Puts destructive habits before you

A person who is addicted to something can never put their partner first.

This is because they will always choose their addictive habits over their partners.

However, when it comes to good guys, they know that such behaviour is self-destructive, and will focus their energy on making the relationship work.

2. He pressures you to do things for him that you don’t feel comfortable doing

There are guys who will always pressure their women to do things for them even without consulting them and finding out if they are comfortable doing them or not.

However, good men will never pressure their women into doing something they aren’t comfortable doing. This is because they respect their women as well as their choices and opinions.

3. Ignoring or neglecting you

Some men have a tendency of ignoring and not caring about their women.

However, a good man will never ignore you and will always strive to give you the care and attention that you deserve. A good guy will always invest in the relationship and will work towards making you happy.

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