How To Make Her Miss You Like Crazy: 25 Proven Tips
Oh dear, yes, there is a time in your life where you will find yourself on the saddest spectrum of all. The one where you go from not missing her to missing her a little and then suddenly you are missing her like she has gone on and died. And when you finally reach that end of the chart and get to the point where missing her is driving you up a wall of regret, you might start to find yourself at a total loss of how to deal with it. So now you are sitting here wondering, ‘What is the next step here? What do I do?’ You are totally in your right mind to ask yourself that question. And you are even smarter for visiting this page today to help you with the answer. We know that this type of stuff can be ultimately difficult, and maybe even a little depressing, to take on. We get that. Love is known for how messy it can be for a reason. Feelings get slopped all over the place. Up is down and down is sideways. But don’t have too many worries about it, because we might actually have a solution for you. If you really find that you are missing her this much, then maybe you are right to assume that you two are meant to be together. Or at least meant to give it another shot. We aren’t sure what happened or why you are feeling this way, but we sure do know how to help you handle it! Our advice? Make her miss you like crazy! And yes, it is totally possible to do so!! How? Well, luckily for you we know a few proven ways that might just help you accomplish that. Making someone miss you can be challenging as all heck, but it is not totally unachievable. You can do this, but you probably need our help. So let’s get down to business and do just that. Keep reading to see how you can make her miss you like crazy with these 25 following, successful and proven to work, tips below!
How To Make Her Miss You… Like Crazy! (Tips That Actually Work!)
And we mean this. This is why this is the number one on this list! Because it is so dang important to remember when you are trying to make somebody miss you. They are not going to miss you if you are constantly throwing yourself at them with attempts at revival. You want to let things happen naturally. Pushing too hard can, and probably will, drive her away instead of making her want to come back to you. You want to let her take things at her own pace. Forcing anything is never a good idea. There might be an air of resentment in the end if you do it too quickly. Or it might not give her enough time to really decide whether she wants to miss you or not. Just trust us: Don’t try too hard!!
Instead of trying too hard, try hard at playing hard to get. We all know that this is a more effective way of getting someone to start missing you. When you put a little bit of distance, or even a lot, between you then it gives her time and space to realize what she is missing in the first place. If you are constantly around and chatting her up, she will not have any time to have that feeling of missing you from her life, because you will always be there! Stop picking up your phone each time that she texts or calls you. Make other plans, go out and be with other people. Although you want to make her your number priority, we suggest that you don’t do it! Let her know that there are other important things in your life. This will make her want to work harder at becoming your number one priority.
- Apologize If You Messed Up
Okay, so this tip might not be for every single situation, but it is a proven tip that works in one certain situation. That situation would be one where you did something really unforgiving or did something to upset her in some way. You will never get here to miss you if she is truly angered by some of your words or actions. A sincere apology might be the only route to go if this is the case. Why would she miss someone who hurt her and didn’t even say sorry for it? So get going on that apology letter, text or phone call. You would be surprised at how much a few simple words can be when it comes to these types of things.
If you did end up doing something awful to her that warrants an apology from you, you might want to consider also making a grand gesture towards her. Why? To show her that you actually care about her. She might have come to believe that the romance between the two of you is dead because of what you did. So now it is up to you to make her aware that the romance between you is very much alive. We suggest getting her flowers, her favorite gift or planning a major surprise for her. Of course you want to avoid going overboard. Don’t bombard her with these things! Just one, big, special gesture should do it!
- Don’t Blow Up Her Phone Or Social Media
Nothing says ‘crazy’ like becoming the annoying guy that starts constantly blowing up her phone. Whether through social media or text, repeatedly texting or calling her is always going to be a bad idea. It’s okay to indulge in a little bit of her social media. Like a thing here and there. But if you are always popping up she is going to assume you are probably stalking her. Lay low and keep things simple! Do not over do it. This will bring her to miss you more and more. She is going to find herself wishing you were liking more things or starting more conversation with her… Once you stop doing so in the first place.
You want to make sure that you are taking care of your appearance during this time that the two of you are apart. Looking like a mess is not going to bring her to miss you like crazy at all. Instead it is going to make her thankful that she isn’t around you. Hygiene, style and everything in between is important when it comes to trying to appeal to someone. No one wants someone that looks like a rugged mess, right? Right. So look your best! This is going to make her miss you more each and everyday. She’s going to find herself wanting to see this beautiful version of you sometime soon.
Don’t get us wrong- A guy with a good level of confidence is always kind of hot! However, getting too cocky and letting your arrogance overwhelm her is going to be NO GOOD! Arrogance is not hot. Don’t ever forget that. Being humble will make her miss you more than being a complete jerk face because you don’t know how to stop hyping yourself up. Being this way can also bring her to believe that you care more about yourself than you do about her. This is no way to get her missing you. No way at all.
We know that you might be a little bitter that she is not focusing all of her attention on you or that the two of you aren’t vibing at the moment. We get it. But, and this is a big but, do not be angry at her. Lashing out at her is going to push her even farther away from you. Why would she miss someone who is going out his way to make her feel bad about herself? The answer: She won’t! She won’t miss someone like that at all. Instead she will find that she is grateful she, you, or both of you ended things with one another. Be nice. Being nice is the only option when it comes to this! Otherwise she will not miss you like crazy. That’s a fact!
This isn’t some 80’s movie. Standing outside her window with Spotify blasting above your head isn’t going to get you anywhere… Except maybe arrested. Planning run ins with her or always showing up where she is will also be a bad idea, my friend. We know that you might have the urge to see her when you can, but don’t do it. How is she ever going to find out if she misses you if you never go away? We know it’s blunt, but it’s the truth!
- Give Her Space If She Needs It
Can’t miss someone if they never left, now can we? Most definitely not. So give her space. This is super crucial advice when it comes to getting her to miss you like crazy! Especially if you have done something to her that has caused a very unhappy reaction. Giving her space will give her time to cool off or become less distressed with you. This will also give her time to think about what she wants. In this time, with the space you give her, she will be able to clearly think about whether she wants to give things another go or not. And if she doesn’t, then it just simply wasn’t meant to be.
Like we said, gestures are important when trying to get someone’s attention. But overdoing them is not. You want to make sure you find the perfect balance in this kind of thing. Which, we know, can be difficult, but it is nowhere near impossible. Sending flowers or chocolates is a great idea. However, we suggest that you only do it once! Let her know that you are thinking of her, but don’t overwhelm her with it. Keeping things simple is key. You want her to miss you, not think you are being a little too desperate.
- Don’t Reek Of Desperation
Speaking of desperation… That reminds us, don’t do it! Don’t be that guy. The one who is throwing himself at her feet every single day. We know you might feel the need to grovel just a little bit, but don’t do it. At least not until you guys open up a good gateway of communication. This will usually happen when she finally realizes just how much she really misses you! Being desperate? Yeah, that ish is so not attractive.
Alright, so read this proven tip very carefully. Really, read it slowly! Making someone jealous can work to make them miss you. If you do it in the right way! This is vital information. Going too far with this can lead to disaster and will blow up right in your face. Trust us, we know these things. So how can you make her jealous in the right way vs. the wrong one?
Easy. Spend time with other girls, but do not goes as far as to get physically intimate with them or get in a relationship with them. Also, do your best not to shove it too far in her face. Make it apparent you are sharing your time with someone else, but don’t make it too noticeable. She will eventually catch on to the fact that you are going out of your way to make her jealous. You just want her thinking that your mind is starting to wander on to other people.
Rushing anything is never going to be a great plan, bud. You want to take things slowly. Give her some real time to actually start to miss you. Being too overbearing about it can send her in the direction of losing interest in you. And we are pretty sure that is exactly the opposite of what you are aiming for her. Let her take things at her own pace. It’s for the best to do it this way. Again, we want things to happen naturally. Let her miss you like crazy on her own terms, not yours.
A truly awesome way to make her start to miss you, and yes it is proven, is to focus your attention on her, her wants and her needs. She is going to take note of these kinds of things. She is going to think of you as a much nicer person if you do. She is going to miss that type of attention in her life when it is gone. So do the best that you can at proving to her that you are worried about her happiness! It’s worth it in the end.
- Be Her Shoulder To Lean On
You are also going to want to make an effort to be there for her when she needs you. Like when she needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to. Of course, we get that you don’t want to be friend-zoned with that type of thing, but if you play your cards right and follow all of these tips, that simply won’t happen. She is going to appreciate you as a person if you show her that you care and that you will always be there for her. She is going to miss you when she needs someone to be there for her. And hopefully she will find herself being drawn back to you when she needs someone to rely on.
Being petty towards her is a good way to drive her crazy in a bad way! We mean it! Don’t be that guy! It is understandable that you are feeling a bit standoffish because, at this time, she might not be missing you like you want her to. But be patient. Don’t let your anger or pettiness leak out. Keep that all bottled up inside and then go ahead to reaping the rewards from doing so!
- Let Her Know How You Feel
We always think that talking things out is a good idea. She might actually start missing you more if she knows that you also miss her. If you do not let her know, at least once, that you are finding yourself a little lost without her then she might never know that you two can be reunited. She might think that you couldn’t care less about her or that you don’t miss her. You missing her is going to spark the fire inside her that will make her miss you. It’s proven to work in more cases than not. She might not give you a second thought if she assumes that you are not thinking about her! However, it is important to not be too much about your feelings. Like we said, letting her know once, maybe twice if you’re feeling ballsy, is a good idea. But leave it at that! From there on out she knows and that is all you need at this time.
- But Don’t Do It All The Time
Yes, telling her how you feel every day, all day is not going to be good. It will only make it seem like you are desperate. She might not actually believe that you miss her if you say it too often. You want to keep things a little vague. Mystery is going to ignite her curiosity. She is going to want to reach out to you for more information (in her own time) if you leave a little left unsaid. Gushing too much can ruin everything. Let her come to you to find out more. Don’t just give it away for free. Trust this tip, it is more than proven to work!
Being shady, flakey or all over the place? Yeah, not a supreme plan in our opinion. You want to stay on the same wavelength for as long as you possibly can! Be consistent. This means being so with your words and your actions. And doing it as much as you can. Letting things fly all over the place might lead her to believe that you are not a serious personality type. You want to show her that you are not that kind of person. Be real, be honest, be straightforward and stay consistent. It will be better this way!
Like we just mentioned- Be honest! Honesty is key in any type of relationship. We highly doubt that she will find herself missing you like crazy if you are a liar, a cheater or you beat around the bush with things too much. Girls like guys who can be up front with things like their feelings. No one is going to trust in you if you are any less than honest with them, right? Right!
Okay, so we don’t want you to misinterpret this. We don’t think that you should go out of your way to change yourself for anyone! Much less a girl! However, if it is something super negative, maybe take her advice. You might want to think about whether or not there is anything that you could change about yourself or your life that would make you a better person? She might find herself missing you if she realizes that you are willing to take the negative things about yourself and turn them into more positive things.
- Don’t Spill Too Much Information
Keep things ominous if you can. Leaving everything and anything that you are doing out in the open will not peak her interest in you. She will already know everything that she needs to know. You want to have her wondering what you are up to, what you are feeling and who are you hanging around. She is going to feel an urge to inquire… If she simply has no other way of knowing. This, in a sense, is going to be her missing you!
Being a good friend is going to be the best thing that you can do to make her start wishing you were in her life more and more. If you are an awful friend, she is not going to find herself missing you! You want to be a good person to her and show her the better qualities of yourself. This will make her want you around more often.
Last piece of advice? Don’t force things that don’t flow. It just isn’t possible. If she isn’t vibing with you and she isn’t missing you after all of these tips… Well, sorry to say that it might be a lost cause. You are a good person and you deserve someone that wants you! You can’t force her to miss you. But that doesn’t mean you can’t give it your best shot! Good luck, friend!
10 signs you are dating a mammy water. Guys, you really should see this, No.3 will scare YOU!
Signs you are dating a mammy water: This is for all the guys who pick up random girls on the streets without knowing anything about them. Here’s how to know if you are sharing your bed with a mammy water:
- You picked her up from the street or some other random place. Maybe she was even standing in front of an uncompleted building..
- You don’t know her surname. She told you her name is “ Just Julie”..
- She agreed to sleep with you on the very first day, in fact she moved into your house, no questions asked.
- She never gets tired. She can pound yam, fry garri, grind pepper with a stone and still sleep with you when she finishes.
- She always looks perfect, even first thing in the morning. No pimples, her make-up looks permanent and everything is always in the right place.
- Her Brazilian hair looks natural. It really looks like her hair but maybe salons have found a way to remove natural hair and put it back later.
- She never talks about her family and she doesn’t have any friends. You only hear her saying “My sea sisters” sometimes at night but you’re not bothered because girls call themselves all sorts of things.
- Ever since you started sleeping with her, your life has turned upside down but of course your stepmother in the village is to blame.
- She has stopped you from eating fish. Ever since she came into your life, it’s only chicken or meat, nothing that comes from the sea.
- She doesn’t ask you for anything. In fact, she’s every Nigerian boyfriend’s dream. You don’t pay for human hair or internet subscriptions and she doesn’t even want iPhone. She doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day and you don’t even know her birthday sef. She never gets jealous or goes through your phone and she couldn’t care less about your Facebook password. In fact she’s the best!
If the girl you’re with falls into all these categories, you better wake up my guy, NA FISH SHE BE!!!
Boyfriend With These 7 Beautiful Qualities, Please Marry Him
Sometimes, the perfect guy is right in front of you and you, shrouded by all your brittle insecurities and hovering fears are reluctant to go the extra mile with him. Your past has scarred you so badly that you don’t know what to believe. You can’t seem to trust the truth in someone’s words. You think that Love is a lie and something that does not exist for everyone. Well, if you don’t believe in something, you will never be able to find it. Take a risk, it might destroy you but isn’t life all about self-destruction? People die and resurrect every day from the ashes of their past. If you have a boyfriend who does the following things, you should definitely hold on to him forever. Trust him to be the guy who touches your naked soul and makes you feel alive.
1. He fights for you at times when you don’t even want to fight for yourself
If you ever find such a guy who chooses you every day even when you think that you are not worth someone’s love, please wake up from your slumber and realize what you have before it’s too late. Sometimes people don’t believe in themselves until a certain someone starts believing in them.
2. He is your home!
What is a home? A home is not a construct; it is much more than that. Home is place where you belong. You can travel around the globe but at the end of the day you will return to that one place where you will feel safe. Some relationships have to face hardships and people have to live apart from each other. Things can become very hard and distance is detrimental for a healthy relationship. However, if you feel, in your heart that without this guy’s warm embrace, you will always feel lost, then he is your home. No distance in this world can keep you apart from each other. You have a much deeper emotional connection.
He makes you feel secure and safe around him. He makes you feel secure about your surroundings. When we are at our home, we can eat what we want, we can blabber weird stuff and we can be ourselves. When you do all those things around a guy and he still loves you then you’ve got a keeper. You should feel lucky.
3. He loves your originality
Sometimes, there are guys who will try to change you. They want you to be someone who is acceptable to the society. Someone that is acceptable to the society. They have no regard for your originality whatsoever. They just want you to be a clich and they want you to adapt yourself to the societal stereotypes.
Every person is a different person. They all have their own weird stuff and unorthodox behavior and no one should be allowed to change that. If you have a guy who accepts you for who you are and doesn’t compel you to be someone else just for the sake of acceptance from this judgmental society, he is someone you can grow with. He is someone you can put your trust in. He is not someone you just push away just because you feel that what he’s doing is real. Sometimes our whole lives turn out to be a lie because we are reluctant to accept the truth when it reveals itself.
When a relationship starts, it’s all sunshine and rainbows. There a lot of things that you don’t know about the other person. Every human has subjective curiosity but when we know about a person completely, we start to lose interest. When there’s nothing left to talk about, we get bored and the relationship just becomes a dull routine. However, if you have someone in your life whom you can share your silence with, trust me, you have something that people search for their whole lives but are never able to grasp it.
When he can talk to you with his eyes and listen to you when you’re not even uttering a word, you have finally found someone who can tolerate you for the rest of your life. You are just sitting next to each other and there is this sweet comfortable silence and you are in love with their presence, which is what true love is. Love is not about saying the right things or being a sweet talker, love transcend any logical explanation and nothing is rational about finding happiness in someone’s silence.
5. No fight or argument is stronger than the relationship
We all know that there are fights in a relationship. Everyone has their own different opinions and two people in a relationship will not always agree on everything. They are not meant to. I have met many girls who say that they love their boyfriend because he agrees with them on everything they say. That is just nonsense. There will be arguments and there will be a lot of screaming and shouting. When your boyfriend knows when to stop and is aware that if he crosses this thin line, he will do irreparable damage to your relationship and sacrifices his ego for the relationship, he truly does love you.
He doesn’t care about some small thing that incited him. He doesn’t want to verbally or emotionally abuse you ever. He apologizes to you even though it wasn’t his fault because he can’t stay mad at you for long. It is truly a beautiful thing when someone kills his own ego for the one person he loves. It is a very romantic gesture and not many people are capable of it. You should never take such a person for granted and love him with all your heart because he deserves it. He has worked for your love for years and it’s not easy for him at times and he needs your support.
6. His Love is unconditional
There is no emotional blackmail in love. When someone loves you, they accept you with all their heart. They don’t make you beg and take you for granted. If a guy loves you despite your imperfections, he knows the true meaning of love. Some people just frustrate other people without any reason.
They don’t make you feel wanted. They always give you mixed signals. Sometimes relationships are just based on lust. If the guy feels horny, he will become a whole other person and love you and entice you. He will fool you into thinking that he really does love you. However, if you don’t fulfil his sexual desires, he will pour the blame on you and make himself the victim. If a guy loves you unconditionally and isn’t just there with you for his own personal desires, he loves you more than you can imagine.
7. He makes you a part of his life
Everyone needs privacy and personal space. In a relationship, we all know that in order for our individuality to grow, we have to look after ourselves from time to time and our partner should allow that. However, we shouldn’t just disconnect our partner from everything in our lives. We shouldn’t make major decisions of our life without even consulting our partner. If a guy tries to adjust you in his life and makes an effort to make the people he loves adapt around you, he wants you with himself for a very long time. He sees a future in which you two are together. He doesn’t make major choices of his life without thinking about you.
He knows that his life choices will directly affect your life and he doesn’t want to force you into a life which wasn’t based on mutual consent. He knows that your opinion and your decisions matter as much as his and he would never take a step without taking advice from you. He knows that you are his confidant and you wouldn’t want anything that would make you two have regrets in the future. A guy who wants you for an eternity has all these qualities but most of all he has faith in you. He has faith in you when no one else really does. It’s because people don’t know you like he does.
They just know as much about you as you permit to reveal about yourself in front of them your guy knows that even if at times when you fall short, he will be there to help you out. He does not fear the struggles of life. The only thing he fears is that maybe someday you will drift away from him. Sometimes, these thoughts just pop up in his mind out of nowhere and you need to make him believe that this is not true. These are just misconceptions and you are going to prove them wrong together. Whatever it takes, you are going to face.
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