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Now, due to personal reasons, I’m not in the habit of digging for the ‘true’ genesis of Valentine’s Day. However, I’ve come to realize that in the human world, Valentine’s Day is a day synonymous with Love (the ‘human-kind’ of love). I used those words because many humans believe already that love must be inside the same vehicle with sex (which means, the ‘human-kind of Love’ is not love in it actual self, but Lust, Infatuation, and anything negative you can think of)

 

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It’s a norm already for people to have sex on Valentine’s Day as they believe the celebration isn’t complete (or classic) without sex. However, wisdom demands that we should be wary of the direction of the crowd because the crowd can be wrong – and it is always fatal when the crowd is wrongly heading towards a wrong direction (because it means more lives would be ruined).

 

 

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And so, it is quite nice to have a curiosity that seeks to know/determine if the culture of the crowd is right or wrong, healthy or harmful. The point here is, despite that almost everyone sees sex on Valentine’s Day as quite normal, we are wise if we are bent on determining its rightness or wrongness.

 

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I promised to be brief earlier, so, let me go straight to the point. If you must have sex on Valentine’s Day, ensure you only have the ‘Right Type of Sex’. Yeah, don’t be surprised. There is a kind of sex that is right and healthy, and there are other ones that are wrong and harmful. Let me confidently say here that the ‘Right Type of Sex’ is sexual pleasure shared between a married man and his wife – any other thing is ‘perfectly wrong’.

 

 

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And why am I so sure of all these? Number 1, because that’s what God told me in His Word, and I’m confident that God can never be wrong. God made sex, and being the Manufacturer, He is in the best position to tell us how to approach sex. And what He said is that He made sex to achieve certain divine purposes between a legally married man and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution – and any other contrary thing is a sin, harmful, and will bring forth fatal fruits.

 

 

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Number 2, considering the effects that follow sex outside marriage, it is simple to identify what is right and what is wrong. Yeah, it is actually simple. You know, deep down within them, those engaging in premarital/extramarital sex are aware of the degree of it wrongness. The issue is, they intentionally allowed their urges and quest for pleasure to becloud their reasoning. And that’s why those that engages in illicit sexual activities MUST always do it in secret, behind tightly closed doors. They can’t flaunt the fruits with pride like a married couple would. Even the most hardened atheist will hide their illicit sexual activities from their married spouses – deep down, humans can identify rightness and wrongness. Then, we can’t ignore the repercussions that follows: Physical Damages, Emotional Damages, Spiritual Damages and even Societal Damages.

 

 

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So, despite being the popular norm, should you have sex on Valentine’s Day (and beyond Valentine’s Day)?
Answer: NO – If you are unmarried and won’t share the pleasure with your married spouse.
Why? Apart from the fact that it is a sin against the Almighty God, also think about the terrible repercussions. Few-Minute pleasure can ruin your life forever!

 

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You can contract a fatal sexual virus (condoms won’t always save you) that will bring an end to your great dreams, goals and aspirations. You can bring forth an “unwanted pregnancy” that will attract disgrace to you and your family (condoms and pills are not 100% effective). By attempting to abort the pregnancy, implications might arise, leading to premature death, or damage of the womb and becoming barren forever.

 

 

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In fact, your sex partner might be a terrible person with a deadly motive to drug you, rape you and make a video of your unclothedness in your unconscious state. The few-minute pleasure is not worth it at all! Flee sexual immoralities!

Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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questions you can ask a lady to know who she really is

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5 questions you can ask a lady to know who she really is

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Asking her about the future will reveal the kind of person she may be, depending on the response you receive.

Ladies can be very canny and are sometimes masters of camouflage and deception. Unless you are immensely gifted, it may be problematic to fully understand a lady.

The intellectual pathways of a lady may sometimes seem dully hazy but you will find it extremely hard to understand them. But what really can you do to know who they are?

Well, asking someone a question will in some way reveal their true identity depending on how they react to the question as well as the kind of reaction they give.

But what really are these questions you can ask to have a clue of their personality?

1. What is the thing that happened that made you feel weak?

Here, you will get to know what really upsets her and emotionally unseats her. Her response to this, if at all is genuine, will help you know the kind of person she can turn out to be when upset or when annoyed. If nothing has ever made her feel weak, then, you can also know that she has a very strong personality.

2. Do you have a clue about how you will turn out to be?

This is a yes or no question. However, you may want to hear an explanation about the yes or the no. If she has no clue, it will tell you that this is someone who is just living because they are not dead; they really have no interest in life.

3. What makes you unique from other people?

Here, you get a direct response that will be hinged largely on her personality. If she says there is nothing unique about her, you get to know the kind of person you are interacting with. This is probably someone who doesn’t value anything about herself. If there is anything she picks out,  then, you can as well judge from this.

4. What will make you leave someone you love?

This question calls for a variety of responses and each response will represent a personality at different levels of the society. Will it be because she is way too erratic or will it be because she is just too easily pissed? That will be up to you to judge.

5. Is there anything you question about me?

With this query, you get to know what is being kept in the dark about you. You also get to probably know why it is so.

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HEART BREAKING! HOW BEAUTIFUL NIGERIAN BRIDE FINDS OUT SHE IS HIV POSITIVE, ONE WEEK TO WEDDING

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A doctor who took to Twitter to stress the need for a medical test, disclosed that a Nigerian bride who came in for her test with her husband just found out she is HIV positive with just one week to their wedding.  It was discovered that the bride-to-be was HIV positive. No doubt, discovering that a person is infected with the virus is not another way of saying his or her life has ended.

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But in this particular situation, the bride-to-be’s ailing health condition was only discovered one week to her wedding with her sweetheart. Now, dealing with this news, and then, planning a wedding – that is if there is still a marriage ceremony to plan – can be very traumatic.

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The doctor who revealed that the Nigerian bride just found out she is HIV positive with just one week to their wedding, added that the test left him in tears and he can’t stop crying. He wrote on Twitter;

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”IDK who need to hear this, Please do your check up some months to your wedding and know your status and that of your partner not when it next week or next day to the wedding. Couples to be just came for it now, The bride is Hiv+! Just week to thier wedding. cant stop my tears”.

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Knowing the shattering effect of this news, the doctor felt really sorry for them. Hence, while he took to sharing this story . He also advised couples to go for medical tests and check their results long before a wedding is even planned as knowing about any mishap just a week to a planning union is not very ideal

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Many people have reacted to this post in quite expected ways. See some of the reactions below: “There is nothing to be sad about. If you allow love to concur.

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HIV is no more the death sentence it use to be. With ARV the bride will have low viral load and won’t be able to even pass the virus to the husband and she won’t die not even in 50 years time. People need more education about HIV.” another user said,

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nikky248: “Now the test of true love comes into play.

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” ngwajanengweji: “Most people lack knowledge abt HIV if they could learn and stop living in 1980’s and open their minds to education.”

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_.rubie__: “They can still get married tho.

” uzoukwucynthia: “They can go ahead with d wedding if they want to. Treatment is free and available.”

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