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When we were kids, Romeo and Juliet made
us “think” that all we needed was just LOVE
and then you can get the most beautiful girl
in the world.

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Now we know better that there are other
REALITIES attached to the term ” Love &

Sometimes, some folks try to dodge their
“duties” in a relationship/ marriage- this has
only proven fatal as heartbreaks and divorce
has become rampant.

I quickly want to explore some BITTER
TRUTHS about
: focusing
mainly on singles.
Some Knowledge To Arm Yourself With
Before Entering The World Of Dating and

1. Go for your Size!
Guys, stop fantacizing yourself with that
wealthy man’s daughter who walks on the
street once a year and even when she does,
her brothers and their big Alsatian dogs are
with them! Stop injuring yourself, Go for
your size! Ekaette, your neighbour, loves
your dearly! Ladies, Prince Charming
doesn’t exist except in Holly hood! Are you
Cinderella? Stop expecting Shell Manager!
That youth Corper today might a future CEO
you’re snubbing! Go for your size! May “Big
eye” not delay your marriage.

2. Some Guys are NOT worth saying YES to!
This does not contradict the point above but
complements it. True, a lady is “due” for
marriage doesn’t make her desperate to
marry just every Tom, Dick and Harry! No!
Some guys are just not ready at all! He
wants to marry and he still carries himself
as a child in dressing and comportment! If
you find such ones around you, blocking
other interested guys from checking you
out, please, ask him what he wants around
you. Let him speak o!

3. Giving is inevitable in every relationship
You would agree with me that ” You can
Give without loving BUT you can’t Love
without giving”
If he loves you, he will give to you, vice
I know a girl who hardly give to others but
not to me- She gives to me!
Love gives! She CAN’T open her mouth and
say she loves you if she doesn’t always want
to give you! Mba! I don’t mean giving her
body oo…

4. It’s advisable to date a “hustling” guy than
an “already made” one.
Most girls today are after the big shots and
all. I’m not condemning that but I think
“Love becomes stronger when it passes
through the flames of suffering together!
Guys, the girl that keeps getting close to you
even in that 10kobo should be greatly
considered when you hit it tomorrow!
The truth is that: Most “already-made” ones
are taken! They know that the “fun loving”
girls will come and want to start demanding
a solid relationship from them, they will
form nice and cool but a Player Remains A

5. Cheating on your partner shows
irresponsibility and immaturity.
It looks “smart” to be dating 3 guys at same
time all because you think you’re “fair” and
“pretty”- and only one guy can’t just be
enjoying everything! OK!
You lack responsibility so you’re not yet
ready for marriage, maybe till like…Only
immature girls do that though.
The guy who is busy cheating with the
whole world saying “It’s A Man’s World”,
Okay na! When STDs go hold you, she go
leave you and then you go no say “It’s The
Doctor’s World”
I dunno why a guy or a girl who is really
ready for marriage will still be having
anything to do boyfriend/ girlfriend…

6. Beauty Is Only Skin Deep
Beauty fades, bro. His handsomeness will
disappear when he refuses to yield to one of
your request!
It’s appalling that most good looking girls
spend 18 hours in a day worrying about
their looks, Gush! They make all kinds of
hair! They’re still interested in the “You look
beautiful” FROM their old lovers! How
Guys, don’t go for beauty. Shikena! Some
will quickly say “Character”…It’s not even
just that as that word as being infiltrated
and bastardized! Character has two major
components: Kindness and Patience!

7. Know your place
You’re his No. 1, Know your place! Don’t let
Jealousy thwart what you feel for him.
may demand more, that doesn’t
mean he’s cheating on you…
In some relationships, this is hardly learnt!
You’re not married to him yet, yet you’re
suspecting him like a CID…
You may bash, crucify, throw stones at me
but…I don’t care…
In a Marriage Scenario-
The Man and a woman still have their
places! That doesn’t mean a time won’t
come when the woman will be the “Bread
Winner” but her ability NOT to assume the
position of the “man” in the will take

UNDERSTANDING not all these
“kparawuru”feminists who a certain man
has put in the house, put ring in her finger
but what did she put on him? NAGGING-
Dragging for “Empty” right as if when the
time really comes to prove a point, she can
stand! SMH!

In conclusion:

The essence of this thread is
to ESPECIALLY inform anyone and everyone
who is thinking about picking up the barton
of dating…These tips can build you a
healthy mindset your guy/ girl would
benefit from.


Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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How long should you date before getting married?



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In a Whatsapp chat group, there was a story about a lady who dated a guy for over ten years and then he left her for someone else. People’s responses were generally that they dated for too long. Ten years was such a long time.
Early this year, the story of a Lagos socialite who met and married a man all under a year went viral when news broke that the marriage has hit the rocks less than 10 months after the flamboyant wedding. People blamed the marriage failure on lack of enough time to get to know each other.
This begs the question: How long should one date before getting married? LifeXtra sought people’s opinion and this is what they have to say.
Kubura Musa, an entrepreneur, said a year is enough to court someone before marriage. She said one year is practical enough to allow one evaluate whether the partner is a strong match for the long run.
Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
“I feel a year is ideal for a relationship. In that one year, the couple should know if they are compatible for one another or not. Prolonging without any serious reason only tells that the couple doesn’t know what they are doing or what they want,” she said.
Hauwa Katung believes between six months to a year of getting to know each other also provides the couple with ample opportunity to have important conversations about their future “but many forget to ask serious questions during that period and concentrate on ‘I love you, I cannot live without you’.”
Hauwa, who is a wife, said she suffered such because the basic questions about her likes and her future ambition were not discussed and when she got married her husband insisted she will not which she tried to object to but “he insisted and that’s why I am a housewife.”
She reiterated that a period of six months to a year is enough for couples to be able to know those answers to the deep rooted questions about themselves and their partners, adding that if they choose to ignore them now, they may come up later when it might be too late.
Umar Shehu, a student, says it depends on how the level of communication with the significant other progresses. He explained the time should be measured based on how well they know one another and not based on how long.
“Some are not comfortable giving out confidential details about themselves until they have studied that person and his character over a certain time. You know how deceptive people are and when you now bare your heart out to them and at the end of the day the person says they are not doing, that would be hurtful,” he said.
“So, I think as long as you feel ready and comfortable with the person, if it takes you two years, or three months to do that I think it is fine,” he added.

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Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man



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9 Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man

Most guys after spending some quantity time awhile with a lady tends to get carried away hence taking things for granted. Sadly, this behaviour  is done consciously and subconsciously. Alot of things can make a lady fall out of love with a guy. And until you as a man changes and do better,  getting dumped for some other guy won’t be far fetched.  This article  shares 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man and how to prevent that from occurring.

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9. Not being honest with her

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Are you totally honest with your partner or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature, we know but speaking the truth is a necessity especially if you want the relationship to last . You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.

8. She is NOT problem-free!

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She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after, and one of the best way to do that is to listen to her and become her support system.  Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only. But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day.

7. Giving her time

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Nobody is ever to busy, everything boils down to priorities. If you love a woman, show it to her by making time in spite your busy schedules. Yes, We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and , , . That’s everyone’s story now a days. It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

6. You make her bored

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According to nairaland, Relationship is constantly about including sparks, isn’t it? Indeed, even you don’t care for exhausting individuals or things. All in all, in the event that you yourself end up plainly unsurprising, what’s the delight for her to remain with you?

5. Are you getting too possessive?

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It can make your relationship the best one in the world and even ruin it for a lifetime. Over possessiveness creates a claustrophobic effect in the relationship, which is not healthy at all. She probably have been feeling suffocated and anchored in the relationship, and might choose to set herself free very soon. Stop that.

4. Repeated Change in Moods

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Mood swings are a part of everyone’s personality but if it becomes excessive, it can cause a lot of trouble in a person’s personal life and affect different ; same goes for one’s romantic relationship. If it continues, she might lose her patience with you and choose someone who would give her more smiles than frowns. Whining and complaining is understandable the first few times, not all the time and so having frequent mood swings should be treated by an expert immediately.

3. You get too serious for her liking

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This particular personality is called “The Robotic Personality.” And as the name suggests, your girl would want to date a real, talkative human being than a robot, isn’t it? Sometime, the men in the society act too serious with their lovers; it’s good sometimes but would be a nightmare if it happens all the time. Take a break from your hectic schedule, take her out on a trip or a romantic candle light dinner. Be jolly, be fun-loving and make her laugh often – she deserves it and so do you!

2. Critical enough?

Positive criticism is good but it’s not fun if done every time. It can make her feel insecure about herself which may lead her to go through severe depression and lowered self-esteem.

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There sure is a thin line between being positively critical or judgemental about something or someone. By the end of the day, if she’s not happy and confident around you, she would not have a good reason to stay.

1. Emotional Bond

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A relationship is a blend of intimacy and emotional attachment. If you are not open about yourself or your problems to her, she might feel you don’t want her to interfere in your life or that you are not permitting her to be a part of your world.

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