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In many different ways, members of our society
continue to weigh in on many social issues,

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whether it is about prostitution, gay marriage, capital punishment, unfaithfulness in or some other social issue. In this current article, I wish to look at polygamy – specifically, polygyny
or male polygamy – presenting ten reasons why
everyone should welcome, support and promote it.

First of all, almost all men already like having as many female partners as possible.
They have that natural penchant to be with scores
of women. If we forbid it because of some so-
called Bible teaching, we only create problems,
including unfaithfulness, because men, generally
speaking, will still go out to satisfy that desire to be with many women. Let’s give men the unhindered chance to do what
they enjoy doing – keeping many women as his
partners [at home legitimately].

 Second reason: Polygamy promotes individual rights and freedom. It is obvious that everyone
wants to be free to associate, choose, decide and
so on, and this applies to the practice of polygamy. The decision to practice polygamy should be left
with the individual; it is a personal decision that no
person or institution should interfere with. If a man
wishes to practice polygamy, or if a woman wants
to live in a polygamous marriage, the decision
should be left with the person. No one should deprive that individual of this right. To do
otherwise is to trample upon the right of the
individual to choose what is good for him.

Third, polygamy helps to prevent or minimize adultéry… Since, generally speaking, a man enjoys
having multiple séxual relationships, or since a
man is more likely to cheat on his wife, if a man is
allowed to have as many wives as he wants, he will
have no, or less, need to practice extra-marital séx.
Having only one wife creates a condition for the temptation to cheat to flourish. Polygamy can help
solve this problem.

Fourth, polygamy is part of some culture. By practicing this form of culture, the people feel
proud and dignified. Why should some people feel
that their one-man-one-wife culture should be
more acceptable, or is better, than a one-man-
many-wives culture? Is this not what we call
ethnocentrism? It is this ethnocentric tendency that has caused many unique cultural practices to be destroyed completely. We must not allow this to
happen to polygamy. We must protect our culture.

 Fifth, polygamy was practiced by great men of both the Bible and the Koran.
Abraham had more than one wife. Jacob had more
than one wife. David had more than one wife.
Solomon had more than one wife. Mohamed had
several wives. God did not condemn or punish any
of these men for practicing polygamy. In fact, the Koran puts it clearly – a man is allowed to have up
to four wives. Those who think that polygamy is
wrong because Adam had only one wife don’t
understand that Adam had no choice. If God had
placed several Eves into the Garden of Eden or somewhere near it, forget it, Adam would have
taken them all as wives.

 Sixth, polygamy helps to reduce the number of unmarried women in a society.
In other words, it brings hope to the single women
among us. If polygamy is enthusiastically welcome
and promoted and accepted, the number of married women in our society will be less. We all know what problems most unmarried women
face, don’t we? Polygamy can help solve these
problems. You see what joy and polygamy
can bring to a society?

Seventh, polygamy helps men with leadership ability. Most men and women know that women
are one of the most difficult creatures to deal with
in this world. So, for a man to control a home of
three or four wives with different backgrounds
and behavior, for example, is a great leadership
responsibility. And if a man can successfully manage this, then he’s most likely to manage great
institutions or people. If one can understand and
deal with women easily and successfully, then he
has great management and leadership skills.

Eighth, polygamy teaches a man to learn how to be patient. Many of us know that patience is a
great virtue. Most of us also know that women do
all kinds of things that annoy, infuriate or frustrate
men. As mentioned in the previous argument,
women, generally speaking, are troublesome
creatures. If a man who has two or three wives can learn to keep them in his life for years, in spite of
their troublesome nature, then that man has
obtained one of the greatest virtues of life. Do we
need impatient people in our society, or patient
people?

Ninth, polygamy is good in that it proves that men have a humanitarian spirit in them.We all know
that, as experience has shown, it is the man’s
responsibility to provide for the home. So, imagine a man who has four wives, each having three children. If this man can willingly, readily and ably provide food, , shelter and other things for the four women and their children, isn’t he helping
to sustain humanity? Isn’t he a humanitarian? Do
you know what would happen to those women if
they had no one to help them? This is the
humanitarian side of polygamy, and it is another
reason why we should support it and encourage both men and women to welcome and promote it.

Finally, polygamy is an age-old normal human practice. Polygamy has been with us for ages. It
started long before the Flood of Noah came. Some
say that the first man to have ever practiced
polygamy was Lemech, a man who married two
women. It has been practiced since that time. Let’s
not frustrate its continuation. To conclude, there are many good reasons why polygamy is a
fantastic practice, but because of time and space,
only ten reasons have been proffered. Indeed,
supporting polygamy is a sensible thing to do
because men already like having many partners, it
enhances personal freedom, helps to prevent or minimize adultery, is an integral part of some
culture, was practiced by great men of Christianity
and Islam and other religions, helps to decrease
the number of single women in society, helps men
with leadership ability, it indicates that men are
humanitarian, and it is a normal human practice. Go for it, Nigerians! Believe me, my people. We will
never stop following the issues. If you also think it
would benefit society, state why please. If not, also
state why. Thank you

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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How long should you date before getting married?

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In a Whatsapp chat group, there was a story about a lady who dated a guy for over ten years and then he left her for someone else. People’s responses were generally that they dated for too long. Ten years was such a long time.
Early this year, the story of a Lagos socialite who met and married a man all under a year went viral when news broke that the marriage has hit the rocks less than 10 months after the flamboyant wedding. People blamed the marriage failure on lack of enough time to get to know each other.
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Kubura Musa, an entrepreneur, said a year is enough to court someone before marriage. She said one year is practical enough to allow one evaluate whether the partner is a strong match for the long run.
Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
“I feel a year is ideal for a relationship. In that one year, the couple should know if they are compatible for one another or not. Prolonging without any serious reason only tells that the couple doesn’t know what they are doing or what they want,” she said.
Hauwa Katung believes between six months to a year of getting to know each other also provides the couple with ample opportunity to have important conversations about their future “but many forget to ask serious questions during that period and concentrate on ‘I love you, I cannot live without you’.”
Hauwa, who is a house wife, said she suffered such because the basic questions about her likes and her future ambition were not discussed and when she got married her husband insisted she will not work which she tried to object to but “he insisted and that’s why I am a housewife.”
She reiterated that a period of six months to a year is enough for couples to be able to know those answers to the deep rooted questions about themselves and their partners, adding that if they choose to ignore them now, they may come up later when it might be too late.
Umar Shehu, a student, says it depends on how the level of communication with the significant other progresses. He explained the time should be measured based on how well they know one another and not based on how long.
“Some are not comfortable giving out confidential details about themselves until they have studied that person and his character over a certain time. You know how deceptive people are and when you now bare your heart out to them and at the end of the day the person says they are not doing, that would be hurtful,” he said.
“So, I think as long as you feel ready and comfortable with the person, if it takes you two years, or three months to do that I think it is fine,” he added.

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9 Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man

Most guys after spending some quantity time awhile with a lady tends to get carried away hence taking things for granted. Sadly, this behaviour  is done consciously and subconsciously. Alot of things can make a lady fall out of love with a guy. And until you as a man changes and do better,  getting dumped for some other guy won’t be far fetched.  This article  shares 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man and how to prevent that from occurring.

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9. Not being honest with her

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Are you totally honest with your partner or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature, we know but speaking the truth is a necessity especially if you want the relationship to last . You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.

8. She is NOT problem-free!

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She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after, and one of the best way to do that is to listen to her and become her support system.  Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only. But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day.

7. Giving her time

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Nobody is ever to busy, everything boils down to priorities. If you love a woman, show it to her by making time in spite your busy schedules. Yes, We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and work, work, work. That’s everyone’s story now a days. It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

6. You make her bored

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According to nairaland, Relationship is constantly about including sparks, isn’t it? Indeed, even you don’t care for exhausting individuals or things. All in all, in the event that you yourself end up plainly unsurprising, what’s the delight for her to remain with you?

5. Are you getting too possessive?

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It can make your relationship the best one in the world and even ruin it for a lifetime. Over possessiveness creates a claustrophobic effect in the relationship, which is not healthy at all. She probably have been feeling suffocated and anchored in the relationship, and might choose to set herself free very soon. Stop that.

4. Repeated Change in Moods

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Mood swings are a part of everyone’s personality but if it becomes excessive, it can cause a lot of trouble in a person’s personal life and affect different ; same goes for one’s romantic relationship. If it continues, she might lose her patience with you and choose someone who would give her more smiles than frowns. Whining and complaining is understandable the first few times, not all the time and so having frequent mood swings should be treated by an expert immediately.

3. You get too serious for her liking

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This particular personality is called “The Robotic Personality.” And as the name suggests, your girl would want to date a real, talkative human being than a robot, isn’t it? Sometime, the men in the society act too serious with their lovers; it’s good sometimes but would be a nightmare if it happens all the time. Take a break from your hectic schedule, take her out on a trip or a romantic candle light dinner. Be jolly, be fun-loving and make her laugh often – she deserves it and so do you!

2. Critical enough?

Positive criticism is good but it’s not fun if done every time. It can make her feel insecure about herself which may lead her to go through severe depression and lowered self-esteem.

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There sure is a thin line between being positively critical or judgemental about something or someone. By the end of the day, if she’s not happy and confident around you, she would not have a good reason to stay.

1. Emotional Bond

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A relationship is a blend of intimacy and emotional attachment. If you are not open about yourself or your problems to her, she might feel you don’t want her to interfere in your life or that you are not permitting her to be a part of your world.

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