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In many different ways, members of our society
continue to weigh in on many social issues,

whether it is about prostitution, gay marriage, capital punishment, unfaithfulness in or some other social issue. In this current article, I wish to look at polygamy – specifically, polygyny
or male polygamy – presenting ten reasons why
everyone should welcome, support and promote it.

First of all, almost all men already like having as many female partners as possible.
They have that natural penchant to be with scores
of women. If we forbid it because of some so-
called Bible teaching, we only create problems,
including unfaithfulness, because men, generally
speaking, will still go out to satisfy that desire to be with many women. Let’s give men the unhindered chance to do what
they enjoy doing – keeping many women as his
partners [at home legitimately].

 Second reason: Polygamy promotes individual rights and freedom. It is obvious that everyone
wants to be free to associate, choose, decide and
so on, and this applies to the practice of polygamy. The decision to practice polygamy should be left
with the individual; it is a personal decision that no
person or institution should interfere with. If a man
wishes to practice polygamy, or if a woman wants
to live in a polygamous marriage, the decision
should be left with the person. No one should deprive that individual of this right. To do
otherwise is to trample upon the right of the
individual to choose what is good for him.

Third, polygamy helps to prevent or minimize adultéry… Since, generally speaking, a man enjoys
having multiple séxual relationships, or since a
man is more likely to cheat on his wife, if a man is
allowed to have as many wives as he wants, he will
have no, or less, need to practice extra-marital séx.
Having only one wife creates a condition for the temptation to cheat to flourish. Polygamy can help
solve this problem.

Fourth, polygamy is part of some culture. By practicing this form of culture, the people feel
proud and dignified. Why should some people feel
that their one-man-one-wife culture should be
more acceptable, or is better, than a one-man-
many-wives culture? Is this not what we call
ethnocentrism? It is this ethnocentric tendency that has caused many unique cultural practices to be destroyed completely. We must not allow this to
happen to polygamy. We must protect our culture.

 Fifth, polygamy was practiced by great men of both the Bible and the Koran.
Abraham had more than one wife. Jacob had more
than one wife. David had more than one wife.
Solomon had more than one wife. Mohamed had
several wives. God did not condemn or punish any
of these men for practicing polygamy. In fact, the Koran puts it clearly – a man is allowed to have up
to four wives. Those who think that polygamy is
wrong because Adam had only one wife don’t
understand that Adam had no choice. If God had
placed several Eves into the Garden of Eden or somewhere near it, forget it, Adam would have
taken them all as wives.

 Sixth, polygamy helps to reduce the number of unmarried women in a society.
In other words, it brings hope to the single women
among us. If polygamy is enthusiastically welcome
and promoted and accepted, the number of married women in our society will be less. We all know what problems most unmarried women
face, don’t we? Polygamy can help solve these
problems. You see what joy and polygamy
can bring to a society?

Seventh, polygamy helps men with leadership ability. Most men and women know that women
are one of the most difficult creatures to deal with
in this world. So, for a man to control a home of
three or four wives with different backgrounds
and behavior, for example, is a great leadership
responsibility. And if a man can successfully manage this, then he’s most likely to manage great
institutions or people. If one can understand and
deal with women easily and successfully, then he
has great management and leadership skills.

Eighth, polygamy teaches a man to learn how to be patient. Many of us know that patience is a
great virtue. Most of us also know that women do
all kinds of things that annoy, infuriate or frustrate
men. As mentioned in the previous argument,
women, generally speaking, are troublesome
creatures. If a man who has two or three wives can learn to keep them in his life for years, in spite of
their troublesome nature, then that man has
obtained one of the greatest virtues of life. Do we
need impatient people in our society, or patient
people?

Ninth, polygamy is good in that it proves that men have a humanitarian spirit in them.We all know
that, as experience has shown, it is the man’s
responsibility to provide for the home. So, imagine a man who has four wives, each having three children. If this man can willingly, readily and ably provide food, , shelter and other things for the four women and their children, isn’t he helping
to sustain humanity? Isn’t he a humanitarian? Do
you know what would happen to those women if
they had no one to help them? This is the
humanitarian side of polygamy, and it is another
reason why we should support it and encourage both men and women to welcome and promote it.

Finally, polygamy is an age-old normal human practice. Polygamy has been with us for ages. It
started long before the Flood of Noah came. Some
say that the first man to have ever practiced
polygamy was Lemech, a man who married two
women. It has been practiced since that time. Let’s
not frustrate its continuation. To conclude, there are many good reasons why polygamy is a
fantastic practice, but because of time and space,
only ten reasons have been proffered. Indeed,
supporting polygamy is a sensible thing to do
because men already like having many partners, it
enhances personal freedom, helps to prevent or minimize adultery, is an integral part of some
culture, was practiced by great men of Christianity
and Islam and other religions, helps to decrease
the number of single women in society, helps men
with leadership ability, it indicates that men are
humanitarian, and it is a normal human practice. Go for it, Nigerians! Believe me, my people. We will
never stop following the issues. If you also think it
would benefit society, state why please. If not, also
state why. Thank you

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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6 WAYS PARENT UNKNOWINGLY INTRODUCE THEIR CHILDREN TO CHILD ABUSE

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Parenting can be a very tasking job, considering the demands of new born babies, raising them, attending to their needs and other things can make parents wants to break.

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More tasking is when the child begins to grow, the elementary stage of the child which informs the beginning stages of the child. The child formative years is the most imperative years of his life, which most them suffers major abuses because of something the parent did or did not do.

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As a parent, it is assumed that you try the best you can to protect your children from all forms of abuse.

But even after that, it seems your best wasn’t good enough so they still fall victim to the very abuse you were protecting them from.

Here is a shocking fact: half of the times your kids were abused, you were the one who exposed them to it.

How?

1. Allowing Them To Sit On An Adult’s Laps

Be watchful of some older relatives and outsiders who carry your children on their laps. Especially the ones who always insist that your child sits in that position.

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Your girl child could be fondled or molested by them, unknown to you. Protect your children, make sure that they don’t carry your child like that.

2. Being Accepting Of Over-Involved Outsiders

Those aunties and uncles that are always showing care to your child. Buying them toys, helping out with their school fees and even asking you if they can take them to their house for holidays. Be careful of them.

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Some of them could be grooming your children for sex or expose them to other vices.

3. Unsupervised Plays

Adults aren’t the only ones who abuse your children. Even older children can molest their younger siblings.

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Also, from age 6, children become curious about their genitals and want to explore. So a harmless play could lead to something else.

Be wary of older children in your compound who befriend your kids.

4. Relatives

Yes, it is true that relatives also submit your children to various types of abuse, sad and hurtful as it sounds.

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Not every family member you allow to care for your children has their best interest at heart.

5. Insults And Name Calling

As a parent, you often make the mistake of raining all forms of insult on your children. You call them idiot, useless and other vile names.

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Know today, that insulting your child hurts their self-esteem and breaks their spirit.

Even if they don’t cry when you do so, they get hurt.

6. Negligence

Refusing to provide your child with basic needs is also a form of abuse. Or refusing to be involved in their lives.

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How else do parents expose their children to abuse? Let’s talk about it in the comment section.

(Daily Advent)

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6 things you’re doing that could cause relationship problems

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are a two-way street. Yes, your partner may have some things they could work on but that doesn’t mean you’re completely blameless when it comes to your relationship problems.

No one likes admitting, even to themselves, that they may be doing something wrong, but looking at your behaviour with a critical eye can have a really positive impact on your relationship.

Here are 6 things you might be guilty of that often cause relationship problems:

Having unrealistic expectations

If you expect to come home to a fresh bouquet of flowers every day from your practical and budget-conscious boyfriend, you’re going to be disappointed… a lot.

We all have certain expectations in a relationship. These can range from big things, like marriage and kids, to smaller details like if you’re okay with socks on the bathroom floor.

It’s important that you sit down and discuss these expectations so you’re both on the same page. This way you’ll understand what each of you expects from the other.

Not respecting boundaries

Just because you’re comfortable with something, doesn’t mean your significant other (SO) is. If he isn’t okay with being very affectionate in front of his parents, respect that.

Boundaries are there to create a safe space in a relationship so they should be agreed upon and respected by both parties. Figure out what they are for both of you early on in the relationship, before any resentment can come into play.

This doesn’t mean that you have to be the only one making sacrifices, but the two of you should have mutual respect for the lines put in place.

Expecting affection, but not giving it

In a relationship, we all want to feel loved and appreciated, so being affectionate with your partner is important. If you want more affection between the two of you, being cold and offish won’t magically make your relationship warm and loving.

Try doing something for your SO like watching his favourite movie together or making him a cup of coffee while he’s still in bed on a Sunday morning. Those little acts of kindness will make a big impact in creating a loving relationship.

Communicating poorly

Good communication has been touted as the number one requirement for any happy relationship. So it’s not surprising that a lack of it can cause serious relationship problems.

If your partner has done something that annoyed or upset you, speak up. Tell them what you have an issue with, how it made you feel and a solution to avoid it in the future.

Allow them to do the same and have mutual respect for each other during the process. This way, you’ll be able to deal with small disagreements before they become serious issues.

Being overly critical

We all know relationships take compromise. You’re both learning how to live together harmoniously and this means quite a bit of trial and error.

The worst thing to do when your partner is attempting to improve is to immediately begin criticizing their efforts. No one likes being yelled at for doing their best and this might discourage them from trying again in the future.

If you see your partner is trying to improve, even if the attempt is not perfect, give them some positive feedback and offer assistance in order to encourage them to keep at it.

Using your partner as your go-to scapegoat

Nobody likes being treated as someone else’s emotional punching bag, especially when that person has done nothing wrong.

If you’ve had a stressful day at work or your sister said something that rubbed you the wrong way, don’t snap at your partner when they ask what’s for dinner and take your frustrations out on them.

Instead, try venting your feelings to your SO and ask them for advice on the situation. This will turn a bad mood into a helpful bonding opportunity.

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