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There are so many things to consider before having a
baby, so the decision process can seem a little
overwhelming at first.
But while there are some things to think about that
can wait (like whether you’ll use cloth or disposable
diapers), there are a few things to consider before
having a baby that you definitely need to think about
before you go off the Pill and start looking for an OB/
GYN.

Here are 7 serious things to consider before having a
baby.

1. RELATIONSHIP: It’s been done before, but it’s
never a good idea, because it simply doesn’t
. If you’re thinking about having a baby to
save your relationship with your significant other,
think again. Bringing a baby into an already
unsteady relationship means the -out from an
eventual break-up will be worse, and felt by three
people, not just two. On the other hand, if you
and your partner are in a happy, healthy
relationship, and you’re both longing to hear the
pitter-patter of tiny feet, keep reading…

2. MONEY: This question is simple at first, then it
gets more complicated — can you afford to have
a baby? The expense goes beyond a crib and
stroller and diapers and extends to taking a leave
from work, hiring a child care provider, and
possibly buying a bigger car. Think about all of
these expenses. The bottom line costs are
certainly some things to consider before having a
baby.

3. OTHER KIDS: If you have other children, it’s
important to also consider their situations before
you decide whether or not to add to their ranks.
Certainly they don’t have the final consideration,
but even more than worrying about whether or
not you can handle two or three kids in diapers
(new baby and two toddlers?), also think about
whether there’s enough of you and your spouse
to go around.

4. CAREER: The debate over women and mothers in
the workplace has raged for nearly a century, and
though many claim to be experts in both camps,
no one knows what’s better for you and your
family than you do. If you’re interested in
pursuing your career to its fullest, though, you
may want to think about the timing of having a
baby. Consider that, while you’re away on
maternity leave, your co- and
competitors will be there, in the , making
progress and connections. If this thought gives
you hives, you may want to delay starting a
family… for now.

5. AGE AND HEALTH: Back in my great-
grandmother’s #time, it wasn’t uncommon for
women to have children into their 40s and 50s…
but nowadays, most of us stop in our late 30s or
early 40s. Why? Because there are a lot of health
risks that older moms face. If you’re over 40,
have a frank discussion with your doctor before
you decide for sure whether or not to get
pregnant. Your health is certainly one of the most
important things to consider before having a
baby!

6. SUPPORT SYSTEM: No matter how marvelous a
multi-tasker you are, or how good your motherly
intentions are, you’ll need help to raise a baby,
above and beyond your partner. Consider simple
things, like who will watch the baby for
occasional Date Nights, as well as more pressing
concerns, like who will provide child care if you
work outside the home.

7. LIFESTYLE: This is, in my opinion, one of the
most important things to consider before having
a baby, especially a first baby. It sounds horrible,
but any parent can tell you it’s true: your life,
while it will be so much richer and more
rewarding, will never be your own again once
you have a child. Every decision you make, for
the rest of your life, will be made with a child’s
needs in mind… so if you’re a free, independent
spirit who loves spontaneity and travel, this may
not be the time to have a baby… unless you want
to bring one with you… and why not? But your
lifestyle is something to consider, for sure.
While again, you don’t have to think about some of
the smaller issues yet, these are the main things to
consider before having a baby… once these are all
out of the way, feel free to consider the pros and
cons of breast-feeding, co-sleeping, and whether or
not you’ll need a midwife.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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To Identify Girls You Should Never Get Married; If You See Numbers 1 And 3, Run!

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Marriage is not a friendship, there is a very big different between the two.Marriage is the coming together of a man and a woman to unit as one and form a home.It has to do with lifetime not friendship that you meet today as friend and break up tomorrow. Marriage as they said is a beautiful thing ;but how true is that statement if you’re married to the wrong woman?.The truth is that most single ladies who are ready to get married are wolves and lionesses that no man should ever get married to.

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You may want to ignore the fact that she can’t cook ,but does it stop there? can she clean ? wash and arrange the house without complaining that you arena helping?.This is something to watch out for any lady you intend to settle with.She must be person that tends after her home like a precious vineyard;else if you make the mistake of marrying her you won’t be able to stand her in a few years to come.

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She’s not Godly

May be you count yourself as one of those sinners in the town,but believe me your life will turn out even more miserable if you marry a lady who is not Godly.I wonder what your children will become in the society if you marry such a bad girl,no one is care to teach them something of the lord.So check her well,if she exhibits ungodly traits you should never even dream of taking her to the alter,a lady that smokes,drinks,lies, comes home late,curses,talks too much,nags,gossips,is lousy or has a raging temper is not godly ,you should never think of marrying such woman.

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Materialistic and frivolous

So you really like her ,may be love her but she’s just too materialistic and demanding,you are the one doing the paying,hmm!,did you think she’s gonna stop it when she gets married to you,may be you are one of the big boys in the town and have a whole lot of money ,that doesn’t mean you should marry a lady who’s willing to help you spend half of it .Your wife should be a gatherer not a dispenser.

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She doesn’t do anything

Some guys will tell you that they can work for themselves and their wives,I don’t advice you to marry a lady who depends on you for ”air”.If she can’t do anything to earn a living ,has no skill,she is not educated as well ,has no plans of what she is doing ,then better not marry her else one you’re going to see her as burden.

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Don’t really love her

Don’t love a lady because your mum said that you should marry her,that she is good .Love is the most important thing in any relationship, don’t marry to please your mum and displeases yourself because marriage is for a lifetime is not friendship,you should marry her for what you feel for and not because you want to please someone else,if you don’t love her then please don’t marry her.

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She can’t stand your family

Never marry a woman who cannot stand your family because a time will come when she won’t be able to stand you too;who would you run to then? The same family you you abandoned for her! You shouldn’t risk tearing your life to pieces like that.If your family says no to her then find out why,if she’s the one that just doesn’t like seeing your family members then the problem is even bigger.

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She is too emotional

Stay away from ladies that are very emotional, nothing you say or do can make them happy when they are in their moods.This can get very difficult and annoying in the long run.

 

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Five(5) Signs Your Husband Can’t Live Without You

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1. HE BELIEVES FAIRIES PICK UP HIS DIRTY SOCKS

Some men – not all of them – have no idea how the laundry gets done. They throw their dirty clothes in the hamper or on the floor and miraculously everything ends up clean and neatly folded and organized in their drawers and closet. Little does he know that you are the laundry fairy. Next time, ask him to fold the clothes, so he realizes that these things don’t just happen.

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2. HE CAN’T SLEEP UNLESS YOU COME TO BED

Sure, most men play the macho part in front of their friends. But many married men have lost the ability to sleep without having their spouse next to them. Your spouse might toss and turn while you’re in the kitchen finishing up the dishes or at the computer catching up on . He may even close his eyes and pretend to sleep. Still, he’ll pull you close to him when you finally climb into bed and he won’t start snoring until you are snugly in his arms or at least lying within reach.

3. HE SHOWERS YOU WITH HUGS AND KISSES

Everyone knows most men crave sex, and many believe they need it to survive. Few, however, admit to needing affection. If your man is constantly showering you with hugs and kisses, and he likes to hold hands and cuddle – when no one else is around, of course – then he probably can’t stand the thought of being without you. These signs of affection are about comfort and love and not sex. That’s pretty special.

4. HE DOESN’T KNOW WHERE ANYTHING IS IN THE HOUSE

You know the saying, “If his brain weren’t attached to his head, he would not know where to find it.” This is your husband. He has no idea where anything is, even if it’s staring him in the face. Children tend to have this problem, too. But wives and mommies never do. They can tell you exactly where in the back of the closet you will find the feather duster that you haven’t used in four years and five months. They will know it’s been that long, too. Without you, hubby wouldn’t be able to find his own feet, let alone the keys to the car or important documents and the like.

5. HE TELLS YOU

Men might not be able to function without a good woman by their side, but they are not dumb. They know a good thing when they have it. That’s why your husband is constantly telling you that he loves you and that he would be lost without you. Although words alone are never enough, they are an important part of your relationship. We all need to be needed. In reality, your husband could fend for himself if he had to. But you sure make his life easier, and he knows it.

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