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Almost any woman, no matter where and how
she lives, what her social and marital status is, at
least once in her life either faces the problem of
her man cheating or questions herself on
whether he is being unfaithful.
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Happy couple
The portal YourTango represented by the lady-
journalist decided to address all women around the
world and explain why men cheat and how to prevent
such development.
What are the common reasons for the indecent
behaviour? He wants more spice in his sex life, he is
bored, he lacks attention from his second half, he
wants to exercise his freedom or he is just tired of
disappointing his partner. Some even attribute it to
biological factors that man is meant to procreate with
many women for the sake of preserving species.
However in many cases the two partners speak
different love languages, which can actually be solved
inside the couple, as like all human beings men have
an innate need to feel respected and also be a hero
for his second half.

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These 10 tips will be definitely helpful for any woman
in
. So, how to prevent him from
cheating:

1. Be the one who initiates sex
Sexual relationships is the one of the means to show
him he is loved and desired. Do not neglect the
physical contact as for our strongest halves
desirability is also associated with masculine power
and success.

2. Be open for experiments
Do not let comfort and fear of the unknown prevail
over you when it concerns new sexual experiences.
Allow yourselves to try something new. Unless you
do, he might eventually find another woman for
experiments. By “new” the author is not saying that
you should engage in sexual activity you find
repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things
with the man you love.

3. Don’t over-accommodate
Sometimes when the woman works hard to become
a perfect match for her partner, she becomes too
accommodating and might even lose herself. Thus
the man ends up in realizing that he got what he had
asked for but isn’t sure it’s what he really wants. Have
you ever noticed that men get into relationships with
a very clear picture of what a perfect woman should
be but casually date the “contrasting” women?

4.Too much control
Sometimes we get naughty and try to make our
relationships the way WE want them to be. Thus
we engage in destructive relationship like
complaining, blaming, criticizing, etc. Here you
should focus on controlling yourself but not your
man.

5. Let him see that you appreciate him
You found the right man, you “got” him, the thing is
done – he will be yours forever. Yes? No! Remember,
all relationships are voluntary and he can leave any
time. Even children is not always a reason for him to
stay. So show him your love, tell him about it and
make sure your man knows how important he is for
you.

6. He needs time for himself
Did you know that some men cheat because they
consider it a means of exercising their freedom? To
avoid it allow your man time for himself without you.
Surely, girls love doing everything together with their
second halves, but you should be careful not to
monopolize all your guy’s time.

7. Be aware of your emotions
Whether or not we are aware of it, women are
masters at using their emotions to communicate
volumes without speaking any words. We
communicate anger, rage, sadness and
disappointment that is received by our partners.
Again, control is the answer. Remember: any person
gets tired of being a constant disappointment, not
only men!

8. Prioritize your relationship
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is
also having an “affair” that’s not sexual, but in the
form of prioritizing something else over relationship:
, children or anything that puts her man lower on
her totem pole than the first position.
If he is your true love, other thing should fade away
and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it
carefully.
Of course no article poses a universal solution to the
problem, as every relationship is unique and many
factors might can contribute to the split in the couple.
However we tend to make and it is
important to realize them because so only we can
stop repeating them over and over again.
Hopefully this article helped you to make some
mental notes for your bond to be sacred and happy!

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
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Most guys after spending some quantity time awhile with a lady tends to get carried away hence taking things for granted. Sadly, this behaviour  is done consciously and subconsciously. Alot of things can make a lady fall out of love with a guy. And until you as a man changes and do better,  getting dumped for some other guy won’t be far fetched.  This article  shares 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man and how to prevent that from occurring.

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9. Not being honest with her

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Are you totally honest with your partner or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature, we know but speaking the truth is a necessity especially if you want the relationship to last . You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.

8. She is NOT problem-free!

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She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after, and one of the best way to do that is to listen to her and become her support system.  Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only. But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day.

7. Giving her time

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Nobody is ever to busy, everything boils down to priorities. If you love a woman, show it to her by making time in spite your busy schedules. Yes, We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and , , . That’s everyone’s story now a days. It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

6. You make her bored

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According to nairaland, Relationship is constantly about including sparks, isn’t it? Indeed, even you don’t care for exhausting individuals or things. All in all, in the event that you yourself end up plainly unsurprising, what’s the delight for her to remain with you?

5. Are you getting too possessive?

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It can make your relationship the best one in the world and even ruin it for a lifetime. Over possessiveness creates a claustrophobic effect in the relationship, which is not healthy at all. She probably have been feeling suffocated and anchored in the relationship, and might choose to set herself free very soon. Stop that.

4. Repeated Change in Moods

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Mood swings are a part of everyone’s personality but if it becomes excessive, it can cause a lot of trouble in a person’s personal life and affect different ; same goes for one’s romantic relationship. If it continues, she might lose her patience with you and choose someone who would give her more smiles than frowns. Whining and complaining is understandable the first few times, not all the time and so having frequent mood swings should be treated by an expert immediately.

3. You get too serious for her liking

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This particular personality is called “The Robotic Personality.” And as the name suggests, your girl would want to date a real, talkative human being than a robot, isn’t it? Sometime, the men in the society act too serious with their lovers; it’s good sometimes but would be a nightmare if it happens all the time. Take a break from your hectic schedule, take her out on a trip or a romantic candle light dinner. Be jolly, be fun-loving and make her laugh often – she deserves it and so do you!

2. Critical enough?

Positive criticism is good but it’s not fun if done every time. It can make her feel insecure about herself which may lead her to go through severe depression and lowered self-esteem.

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There sure is a thin line between being positively critical or judgemental about something or someone. By the end of the day, if she’s not happy and confident around you, she would not have a good reason to stay.

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A relationship is a blend of intimacy and emotional attachment. If you are not open about yourself or your problems to her, she might feel you don’t want her to interfere in your life or that you are not permitting her to be a part of your world.

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