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For many people, cheating is a deal breaker, however, there are couples who choose to it out after one person strays. In some cases, it’s a chance for couples to restrengthen their relationship and start over again. But if you’re the one who was cheated on, it’s up to you to recognize a situation where forgiving a cheater can a good idea or the worst mistake you’ll ever make.

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If you notice these signs, then you should definitely break off the relationship after he cheats on you.

1. He isn’t remorseful

You cannot forgive a cheater who doesn’t feel like he did anything wrong. Any guy that tells you he’s entitled to having other partners or even worse, that it was your fault he cheated, isn’t a man who deserves a second chance.

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2. It’s not the first time

You cannot keep forgiving a cheater unless you’re ready to deal with that for the rest of your life. A serial cheaterwill not make a committed partner. Save yourself the heartache and leave.

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3. He’s not ready to be fully transparent

A cheater who wants forgiveness should be ready to open up to you. He should be able to answer all your questions about the affair and can attempt to help you understand what was going on in his head when he did it. However, if he confesses to sleeping with one other woman, only for you to later find out there are many more, or you find out other lies he didn’t admit to, then he isn’t to be trusted.

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4. He’s not ready to cut ties with the other woman

So he tells you he won’t cheat again, but still wants to remain in communication with the person he cheated with? That’s not really the type of drama you should have to deal with. The best thing to do is to walk away.

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5. It’s hard for you to move on

Here’s the thing, not everyone is capable of forgiving a cheater. And if you find his betrayal so hurtful that you just know you can never look at him the same way, that’s completely okay. It just shows that you have your limits and your partner has crossed it.

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It’s better to let go of the relationship. Otherwise, the resentment and hate will continue to grow no matter what he does. He may be a truly changed man but all that means nothing if you’ve already fallen out of love with him.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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Nigerian lady tattoos her boyfriend’s name on her face to prove her love (video)




A Nigerian lady has attracted attention on social media after being seen in a viral video getting a tattoo of her boyfriend’s name on her face.


The lady who reportedly did this to prove her love to her boyfriend, had “Anjola my love” written on her face by the tattoo artist.


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Six Strange Things Women Do When They Are Cheating In A Relationship



Six Strange Things Women Do When They Are Cheating In A Relationshi

Their are some certain things men should get suspicious of in other to know where they stand and be able to act fast.

One thing about relationships is that you can easily know when men are cheating due to their predictable actions. But for their female counterpart, the reverse is the case. All thanks to their secret lifestyle


Unfortunately for women, their behaviors always disappoint them naturally. So here are six Strange things women do when they are cheating in a relationship

1. She never parts with her phone.

She start being too private with her phone. Everyone is entitled to their own privacy, but if she’s being too secretive with her phone, then their is a problem.

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2. When she starts becoming disrespectful.

It’s very painful when a girl who love and cherish you suddenly start becoming disrespectful to you. Do not assume it is normal because another man is now in her life and also flashing money on her.

3. No calls around you.

If she hastenly cut call around you or she avoided some male callers when you are around, better make sure you keep your eyes open.

She might also prefer not to pick your calls, at this point just know that she is with some other guy.


4. Strongly in opposition.

A minor disagreement happens now and then between every couples, but if she gets miffed over minute issue, you need to be careful as their is something she is hiding behind her anger.

5. When she wants a break in the relationship.

This particular one is really common. When she suddenly wants a break in the relationship, just know that she is cheating.

6. She is always lost in thoughts.

Women are known to be attentive creatures and good listeners. They sacrifice a lot in relationships, but if she barely pays attention to what her man is saying, just no that she is cheating because someone else is playing that role for the boyfriend.

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