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Parenting can be a very tasking , considering the demands of new born babies, raising them, attending to their needs and other things can make parents wants to break.

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More tasking is when the child begins to grow, the elementary stage of the child which informs the beginning stages of the child. The child formative years is the most imperative years of his life, which most them suffers major abuses because of something the parent did or did not do.

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As a parent, it is assumed that you try the best you can to protect your children from all forms of abuse.

But even after that, it seems your best wasn’t good enough so they still victim to the very abuse you were protecting them from.

Here is a shocking fact: half of the times your kids were abused, you were the one who exposed them to it.

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How?

1. Allowing Them To Sit On An Adult’s Laps

Be watchful of some older relatives and outsiders who carry your children on their laps. Especially the ones who always insist that your child sits in that position.

Your girl child could be fondled or molested by them, unknown to you. Protect your children, make sure that they don’t carry your child like that.

2. Being Accepting Of Over-Involved Outsiders

Those aunties and uncles that are always showing care to your child. Buying them toys, helping out with their fees and even asking you if they can take them to their for holidays. Be careful of them.

Some of them could be grooming your children for sex or expose them to other vices.

3. Unsupervised Plays

Adults aren’t the only ones who abuse your children. Even older children can molest their younger siblings.

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Also, from age 6, children become curious about their genitals and want to explore. So a harmless play could lead to something else.

Be wary of older children in your compound who befriend your kids.

4. Relatives

Yes, it is that relatives also submit your children to various types of abuse, sad and hurtful as it sounds.

Not every family member you allow to care for your children has their best interest at heart.

5. Insults And Name Calling

As a parent, you often make the mistake of raining all forms of insult on your children. You call them idiot, useless and other vile names.

Know today, that insulting your child hurts their self-esteem and breaks their spirit.

Even if they don’t cry when you do so, they get hurt.

6. Negligence

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Refusing to provide your child with basic needs is also a form of abuse. Or refusing to be involved in their lives.

How else do parents expose their children to abuse? Let’s talk about it in the comment section.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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Nigerian lady tattoos her boyfriend’s name on her face to prove her love (video)

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A Nigerian lady has attracted attention on social media after being seen in a viral video getting a tattoo of her boyfriend’s name on her face.

 

The lady who reportedly did this to prove her love to her boyfriend, had “Anjola my love” written on her face by the tattoo artist.

 

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Here is the video below;

 

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Six Strange Things Women Do When They Are Cheating In A Relationship

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Six Strange Things Women Do When They Are Cheating In A Relationshi

Their are some certain things men should get suspicious of in other to know where they stand and be able to act fast.

One thing about relationships is that you can easily know when men are cheating due to their predictable actions. But for their female counterpart, the reverse is the case. All thanks to their secret lifestyle

 

Unfortunately for women, their behaviors always disappoint them naturally. So here are six Strange things women do when they are cheating in a relationship

1. She never parts with her phone.

She start being too private with her phone. Everyone is entitled to their own privacy, but if she’s being too secretive with her phone, then their is a problem.

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2. When she starts becoming disrespectful.

It’s very painful when a girl who love and cherish you suddenly start becoming disrespectful to you. Do not assume it is normal because another man is now in her life and also flashing money on her.

3. No calls around you.

If she hastenly cut call around you or she avoided some male callers when you are around, better make sure you keep your eyes open.

She might also prefer not to pick your calls, at this point just know that she is with some other guy.

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4. Strongly in opposition.

A minor disagreement happens now and then between every couples, but if she gets miffed over minute issue, you need to be careful as their is something she is hiding behind her anger.

5. When she wants a break in the relationship.

This particular one is really common. When she suddenly wants a break in the relationship, just know that she is cheating.

6. She is always lost in thoughts.

Women are known to be attentive creatures and good listeners. They sacrifice a lot in relationships, but if she barely pays attention to what her man is saying, just no that she is cheating because someone else is playing that role for the boyfriend.

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