6 WAYS PARENT UNKNOWINGLY INTRODUCE THEIR CHILDREN TO CHILD ABUSE
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Parenting can be a very tasking , considering the demands of new born babies, raising them, attending to their needs and other things can make parents wants to break.

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More tasking is when the child begins to grow, the elementary stage of the child which informs the beginning stages of the child. The child formative years is the most imperative years of his life, which most them suffers major abuses because of something the parent did or did not do.

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As a parent, it is assumed that you try the best you can to protect your children from all forms of abuse.

But even after that, it seems your best wasn’t good enough so they still victim to the very abuse you were protecting them from.

Here is a shocking fact: half of the times your kids were abused, you were the one who exposed them to it.

How?

1. Allowing Them To Sit On An Adult’s Laps

Be watchful of some older relatives and outsiders who carry your children on their laps. Especially the ones who always insist that your child sits in that position.

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Your girl child could be fondled or molested by them, unknown to you. Protect your children, make sure that they don’t carry your child like that.

2. Being Accepting Of Over-Involved Outsiders

Those aunties and uncles that are always showing care to your child. Buying them toys, helping out with their fees and even asking you if they can take them to their for holidays. Be careful of them.

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Some of them could be grooming your children for sex or expose them to other vices.

3. Unsupervised Plays

Adults aren’t the only ones who abuse your children. Even older children can molest their younger siblings.

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Also, from age 6, children become curious about their genitals and want to explore. So a harmless play could lead to something else.

Be wary of older children in your compound who befriend your kids.

4. Relatives

Yes, it is that relatives also submit your children to various types of abuse, sad and hurtful as it sounds.

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Not every family member you allow to care for your children has their best interest at heart.

5. Insults And Name Calling

As a parent, you often make the mistake of raining all forms of insult on your children. You call them idiot, useless and other vile names.

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Know today, that insulting your child hurts their self-esteem and breaks their spirit.

Even if they don’t cry when you do so, they get hurt.

6. Negligence

Refusing to provide your child with basic needs is also a form of abuse. Or refusing to be involved in their lives.

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How else do parents expose their children to abuse? Let’s talk about it in the comment section.

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Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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In a Whatsapp chat group, there was a story about a lady who dated a guy for over ten years and then he left her for someone else. People’s responses were generally that they dated for too long. Ten years was such a long time.
Early this year, the story of a Lagos socialite who met and married a man all under a year went viral when news broke that the marriage has hit the rocks less than 10 months after the flamboyant wedding. People blamed the marriage failure on lack of enough time to get to know each other.
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Kubura Musa, an entrepreneur, said a year is enough to court someone before marriage. She said one year is practical enough to allow one evaluate whether the partner is a strong match for the long run.
Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
“I feel a year is ideal for a relationship. In that one year, the couple should know if they are compatible for one another or not. Prolonging relationships without any serious reason only tells that the couple doesn’t know what they are doing or what they want,” she said.
Hauwa Katung believes between six months to a year of getting to know each other also provides the couple with ample opportunity to have important conversations about their future “but many forget to ask serious questions during that period and concentrate on ‘I love you, I cannot live without you’.”
Hauwa, who is a wife, said she suffered such because the basic questions about her likes and her future ambition were not discussed and when she got married her husband insisted she will not work which she tried to object to but “he insisted and that’s why I am a housewife.”
She reiterated that a period of six months to a year is enough for couples to be able to know those answers to the deep rooted questions about themselves and their partners, adding that if they choose to ignore them now, they may come up later when it might be too late.
Umar Shehu, a student, says it depends on how the level of communication with the significant other progresses. He explained the time should be measured based on how well they know one another and not based on how long.
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Most guys after spending some quantity time awhile with a lady tends to get carried away hence taking things for granted. Sadly, this behaviour  is done consciously and subconsciously. Alot of things can make a lady out of love with a guy. And until you as a man changes and do better,  getting dumped for some other guy won’t be far fetched.  This article  shares 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man and how to prevent that from occurring.

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9. Not being honest with her

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Are you totally honest with your partner or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature, we know but speaking the truth is a necessity especially if you want the relationship to last . You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.

8. She is NOT problem-free!

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She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after, and one of the best way to do that is to listen to her and become her support system.  Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only. But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day.

7. Giving her time

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Nobody is ever to busy, everything boils down to priorities. If you love a woman, show it to her by making time in spite your busy schedules. Yes, We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and work, work, work. That’s everyone’s story now a days. It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

6. You make her bored

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According to nairaland, Relationship is constantly about including sparks, isn’t it? Indeed, even you don’t care for exhausting individuals or things. All in all, in the event that you yourself end up plainly unsurprising, what’s the delight for her to remain with you?

5. Are you getting too possessive?

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It can make your relationship the best one in the world and even ruin it for a lifetime. Over possessiveness creates a claustrophobic effect in the relationship, which is not healthy at all. She probably have been feeling suffocated and anchored in the relationship, and might choose to set herself free very soon. Stop that.

4. Repeated Change in Moods

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Mood swings are a part of everyone’s personality but if it becomes excessive, it can cause a lot of trouble in a person’s personal life and affect different relationships; same goes for one’s romantic relationship. If it continues, she might lose her patience with you and choose someone who would give her more smiles than frowns. Whining and complaining is understandable the first few times, not all the time and so having frequent mood swings should be treated by an expert immediately.

3. You get too serious for her liking

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This particular personality is called “The Robotic Personality.” And as the name suggests, your girl would want to date a real, talkative human being than a robot, isn’t it? Sometime, the men in the society act too serious with their lovers; it’s good sometimes but would be a nightmare if it happens all the time. Take a break from your hectic schedule, take her out on a trip or a romantic candle light dinner. Be jolly, be fun-loving and make her laugh often – she deserves it and so do you!

2. Critical enough?

Positive criticism is good but it’s not fun if done every time. It can make her feel insecure about herself which may lead her to go through severe depression and lowered self-esteem.

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There sure is a thin line between being positively critical or judgemental about something or someone. By the end of the day, if she’s not happy and confident around you, she would not have a good reason to stay.

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A relationship is a blend of intimacy and emotional attachment. If you are not open about yourself or your problems to her, she might feel you don’t want her to interfere in your life or that you are not permitting her to be a part of your world.

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