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How can I find out if my girlfriend slept with another guy?

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Riaan Engelbrecht
My intimacy pillars are gentleness, consent, trust and total surrender. Try it

Be very, very, VERY sure of your facts. You obviously have some things you are basing your suspicion on. A hunch is not a fact.

Follow these steps:

  1. Tell her that you have a very serious matter to discuss with her to get her attention.
  2. Prepare for a stormy and heated discussion. Either way, you are going to hack her off and you may also become cross.
  3. Ask her directly if she slept with X. Tell her why you are asking the question and lay out all your evidence.
  4. Depending on her temperament, her answer will be either positive and defiant or negative and deeply, tearfully disappointed in you that you could think this.
  5. Believe her, whatever her answer is.
  6. If her answer was no, apologise, beg for forgiveness and start building up the trust in your relationship. You just shattered it.
  7. If her answer was yes, carefully decide if this is a deal breaker for your relationship or not. Will you continue in an open relationship, will you forgive her and try again, or ask her why she did it and if there is a need that you are not fulfilling for her. Some soul searching for both of you lie ahead.
  8. If you don’t believe her, your relationship is over anyway and you must break up with her – now.

Good luck.

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Steve Bruno
works at AT&T

Follow her. Especially if you know her typical routine, when something changes even the slightest, be there to see why. Its not easy but thats one way.

Hire a private investigator. That’s expensive though.

If she did it once and isnt cheating now, you may never find out.

Sucks you have this problem. Hopefully you are just being paranoid, but if your gut is telling you, listen to it and act on it to know for sure.

Good luck

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Craig Hoyle
been round the block a few times and got burnt on occasion.

Ask her if she says yes she did then you have your answer if she says no she didn’t then you have your answer.

Ask the suspected guy, see above.

If it’s something that happened before you and her got together then what does it matter if they have or haven’t.

If it’s something you suspect has happened deceitfuly while you have been together and you don’t believe either of them maybe you should think about your future together, because there are some problems with trust.

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Jim Davis
Been around the block a few times.

Well, there are two possibilities. Either you already have some reason to believe she’s slept with another guy, in which case what more proof do need? Or you have no reason to think she’s slept with another guy and you’re being being suspicious and controlling, in which case you are being a bad boyfriend, and she’ll be better off without you.

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How long should you date before getting married?

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In a Whatsapp chat group, there was a story about a lady who dated a guy for over ten years and then he left her for someone else. People’s responses were generally that they dated for too long. Ten years was such a long time.
Early this year, the story of a Lagos socialite who met and married a man all under a year went viral when news broke that the marriage has hit the rocks less than 10 months after the flamboyant wedding. People blamed the marriage failure on lack of enough time to get to know each other.
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This begs the question: How long should one date before getting married? LifeXtra sought people’s opinion and this is what they have to say.
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Kubura Musa, an entrepreneur, said a year is enough to court someone before marriage. She said one year is practical enough to allow one evaluate whether the partner is a strong match for the long run.
Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
“I feel a year is ideal for a relationship. In that one year, the couple should know if they are compatible for one another or not. Prolonging relationships without any serious reason only tells that the couple doesn’t know what they are doing or what they want,” she said.
Hauwa Katung believes between six months to a year of getting to know each other also provides the couple with ample opportunity to have important conversations about their future “but many forget to ask serious questions during that period and concentrate on ‘I love you, I cannot live without you’.”
Hauwa, who is a house wife, said she suffered such because the basic questions about her likes and her future ambition were not discussed and when she got married her husband insisted she will not work which she tried to object to but “he insisted and that’s why I am a housewife.”
She reiterated that a period of six months to a year is enough for couples to be able to know those answers to the deep rooted questions about themselves and their partners, adding that if they choose to ignore them now, they may come up later when it might be too late.
Umar Shehu, a student, says it depends on how the level of communication with the significant other progresses. He explained the time should be measured based on how well they know one another and not based on how long.
“Some are not comfortable giving out confidential details about themselves until they have studied that person and his character over a certain time. You know how deceptive people are and when you now bare your heart out to them and at the end of the day the person says they are not doing, that would be hurtful,” he said.
“So, I think as long as you feel ready and comfortable with the person, if it takes you two years, or three months to do that I think it is fine,” he added.

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Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man

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9 Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man

Most guys after spending some quantity time awhile with a lady tends to get carried away hence taking things for granted. Sadly, this behaviour  is done consciously and subconsciously. Alot of things can make a lady fall out of love with a guy. And until you as a man changes and do better,  getting dumped for some other guy won’t be far fetched.  This article  shares 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man and how to prevent that from occurring.

9. Not being honest with her

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Are you totally honest with your partner or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature, we know but speaking the truth is a necessity especially if you want the relationship to last . You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.

8. She is NOT problem-free!

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She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after, and one of the best way to do that is to listen to her and become her support system.  Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only. But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day.

7. Giving her time

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Nobody is ever to busy, everything boils down to priorities. If you love a woman, show it to her by making time in spite your busy schedules. Yes, We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and work, work, work. That’s everyone’s story now a days. It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

6. You make her bored

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According to nairaland, Relationship is constantly about including sparks, isn’t it? Indeed, even you don’t care for exhausting individuals or things. All in all, in the event that you yourself end up plainly unsurprising, what’s the delight for her to remain with you?

5. Are you getting too possessive?

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It can make your relationship the best one in the world and even ruin it for a lifetime. Over possessiveness creates a claustrophobic effect in the relationship, which is not healthy at all. She probably have been feeling suffocated and anchored in the relationship, and might choose to set herself free very soon. Stop that.

4. Repeated Change in Moods

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Mood swings are a part of everyone’s personality but if it becomes excessive, it can cause a lot of trouble in a person’s personal life and affect different relationships; same goes for one’s romantic relationship. If it continues, she might lose her patience with you and choose someone who would give her more smiles than frowns. Whining and complaining is understandable the first few times, not all the time and so having frequent mood swings should be treated by an expert immediately.

3. You get too serious for her liking

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This particular personality is called “The Robotic Personality.” And as the name suggests, your girl would want to date a real, talkative human being than a robot, isn’t it? Sometime, the men in the society act too serious with their lovers; it’s good sometimes but would be a nightmare if it happens all the time. Take a break from your hectic schedule, take her out on a trip or a romantic candle light dinner. Be jolly, be fun-loving and make her laugh often – she deserves it and so do you!

2. Critical enough?

Positive criticism is good but it’s not fun if done every time. It can make her feel insecure about herself which may lead her to go through severe depression and lowered self-esteem.

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There sure is a thin line between being positively critical or judgemental about something or someone. By the end of the day, if she’s not happy and confident around you, she would not have a good reason to stay.

1. Emotional Bond

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A relationship is a blend of intimacy and emotional attachment. If you are not open about yourself or your problems to her, she might feel you don’t want her to interfere in your life or that you are not permitting her to be a part of your world.

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