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Riaan Engelbrecht
My intimacy pillars are gentleness, consent, trust and total surrender. Try it

Be very, very, VERY sure of your facts. You obviously have some things you are basing your suspicion on. A hunch is not a fact.

Follow these steps:

  1. Tell her that you have a very serious matter to discuss with her to get her attention.
  2. Prepare for a stormy and heated discussion. Either way, you are going to hack her off and you may also become cross.
  3. Ask her directly if she slept with X. Tell her why you are asking the question and lay out all your evidence.
  4. Depending on her temperament, her answer will be either positive and defiant or negative and deeply, tearfully disappointed in you that you could think this.
  5. Believe her, whatever her answer is.
  6. If her answer was no, apologise, beg for forgiveness and start building up the trust in your relationship. You just shattered it.
  7. If her answer was yes, carefully decide if this is a deal breaker for your relationship or not. Will you continue in an open relationship, will you forgive her and try again, or ask her why she did it and if there is a need that you are not fulfilling for her. Some soul searching for both of you lie ahead.
  8. If you don’t believe her, your relationship is over anyway and you must break up with her – now.

Good luck.

How to knowb my girlfriend slept with another man How to knowb my girlfriend slept with another man
Steve Bruno
works at AT&T

Follow her. Especially if you know her typical routine, when something changes even the slightest, be there to see why. Its not easy but thats one way.

Hire a private investigator. That’s expensive though.

If she did it once and isnt cheating now, you may never find out.

Sucks you have this problem. Hopefully you are just being paranoid, but if your gut is telling you, listen to it and act on it to know for sure.

Good luck

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Craig Hoyle
been round the block a few times and got burnt on occasion.

Ask her if she says yes she did then you have your answer if she says no she didn’t then you have your answer.

Ask the suspected guy, see above.

If it’s something that happened before you and her got together then what does it matter if they have or haven’t.

If it’s something you suspect has happened deceitfuly while you have been together and you don’t believe either of them maybe you should think about your future together, because there are some problems with trust.

How to knowb my girlfriend slept with another man How to knowb my girlfriend slept with another man
Jim Davis
Been around the block a few times.

Well, there are two possibilities. Either you already have some reason to believe she’s slept with another guy, in which case what more proof do need? Or you have no reason to think she’s slept with another guy and you’re being being suspicious and controlling, in which case you are being a bad boyfriend, and she’ll be better off without you.

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BE WARNED! HERE ARE 5 SURE SIGNS THAT YOU MIGHT LOOSE YOUR PARTNER TO THEIR EX

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All relationships do not end at the altar. There might even be more relationships that failed to reach that landmark than relationships that do.

Point is, relationships end all the time, and when they do, it is not the end of the world. One would have to dust it off and move on to the next.

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However, some people never really dust off the memories of their exes or get over the feeling of being with that person before trying to go be with someone else.

When you get with someone who has yet to move on from an ex; this is how you will know. The partner who compares you to an ex might not have moved on from that ex

1. The won’t shut up about them

This is likely the most blatant pointer to the presence of residual feelings for an ex. When someone you are in a relationship with keep speaking about their ex and the things they had with them, it gets awkward and it’s often likely that they are still pining for him or her.

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That is not to say they can’t even mention them here and there. Incidental mentions shouldn’t be any trouble. It is the incessant, recurrent name dropping that’s often problematic.

2. Comparisons

Imagine a partner talking about how better their ex was, right to your face. Crazy, right? It is both disrespectful for a partner to do this and it’s just as bad for them to insinuate that you are a level below that other person.

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Even if it’s true, it still isn’t something to be said. If your partner doesn’t even care about you and feels OK with making you feel less than their ex, it could be another way to know that they rate them higher than you and may low-key still be wishing they were with that person rather than you.

Building new memories with your partner are different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

3. They still talk. A lot.

This is also another uncomfortable thing to deal with in a relationship, no matter how you view it. Although some people manage to remain friends with their exes and that may be acceptable by their partners depending on the nuances of the breakup and the present relationship.

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Regardless of this, having a partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

4. Always defensive of the ex

On this, Weena Cullins, a licensed clinical marriage and family therapist and relationship expert, tells INSIDER that “if someone constantly feels the need to defend their ex, specifically at times when their ex isn’t the centre of conversation it could mean that they aren’t quite over them.”

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If they won’t create and enforce boundaries when it comes to the ex, too, it is something to be bothered about. No ex should have access to your partner as if they are still together.

A partner talking to an ex so much when they are with you should bother you.

5. Make your relationship an extension of the previous one

Tara Vossenkemper, a therapist and the founder and clinical director of The Counseling Hub, Columbia, South Carolina says “if your partner keeps trying to get you to do very specific things and then saying things like, ‘that’s what me and [ex] used to do,’ then you need to take pause.”

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She tells Bustle further that “building new memories with your partner is different from recreating memories you used to have with an ex.

“One is meaningful and organic. The other is sad and full of baggage.”

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things a good guy won’t do to the woman he loves

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3 things a good guy won’t do to the woman he loves

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A happy couple. A good man will never ignore you and will always strive to give you the care and attention that you deserve. [Source/ blackloveadvice.com]

When a guy loves you, there are some things he cannot do to you, especially if they’ll hurt your feelings.

Register with Helabet and get double your first deposit – up to KES 10,000!Here is a list of things that good guysdon’t do to the women they love.

1. Puts destructive habits before you

A person who is addicted to something can never put their partner first.

This is because they will always choose their addictive habits over their partners.

However, when it comes to good guys, they know that such behaviour is self-destructive, and will focus their energy on making the relationship work.

2. He pressures you to do things for him that you don’t feel comfortable doing

There are guys who will always pressure their women to do things for them even without consulting them and finding out if they are comfortable doing them or not.

However, good men will never pressure their women into doing something they aren’t comfortable doing. This is because they respect their women as well as their choices and opinions.

3. Ignoring or neglecting you

Some men have a tendency of ignoring and not caring about their women.

However, a good man will never ignore you and will always strive to give you the care and attention that you deserve. A good guy will always invest in the relationship and will work towards making you happy.

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