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In a Whatsapp chat group, there was a story about a lady who dated a guy for over ten years and then he left her for someone else. People’s responses were generally that they dated for too long. Ten years was such a long time.
Early this year, the story of a Lagos socialite who met and married a man all under a year went viral when news broke that the marriage has hit the rocks less than 10 months after the flamboyant wedding. People blamed the marriage failure on lack of enough time to get to know each other.
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This begs the question: How long should one date before getting married? LifeXtra sought people’s opinion and this is what they have to say.
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Kubura Musa, an entrepreneur, said a year is enough to court someone before marriage. She said one year is practical enough to allow one evaluate whether the partner is a strong match for the long run.
Kubura said she always worries when young couples brag about their long years of engagement.
“I feel a year is ideal for a relationship. In that one year, the couple should know if they are compatible for one another or not. Prolonging relationships without any serious reason only tells that the couple doesn’t know what they are doing or what they want,” she said.
Hauwa Katung believes between six months to a year of getting to know each other also provides the couple with ample opportunity to have important conversations about their future “but many forget to ask serious questions during that period and concentrate on ‘I love you, I cannot live without you’.”
Hauwa, who is a house wife, said she suffered such because the basic questions about her likes and her future ambition were not discussed and when she got married her husband insisted she will not work which she tried to object to but “he insisted and that’s why I am a housewife.”
She reiterated that a period of six months to a year is enough for couples to be able to know those answers to the deep rooted questions about themselves and their partners, adding that if they choose to ignore them now, they may come up later when it might be too late.
Umar Shehu, a student, says it depends on how the level of communication with the significant other progresses. He explained the time should be measured based on how well they know one another and not based on how long.
“Some are not comfortable giving out confidential details about themselves until they have studied that person and his character over a certain time. You know how deceptive people are and when you now bare your heart out to them and at the end of the day the person says they are not doing, that would be hurtful,” he said.
“So, I think as long as you feel ready and comfortable with the person, if it takes you two years, or three months to do that I think it is fine,” he added.

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Videos of brand new Rolls-Royce vehicles driving out of a compound have Twitter users questioning the monarch.While the country mulls over Finance Minister Tito Mboweni’s medium-term budget speech on the country’s economic spiral, eSwatini King Mswati III has left several on the Twitter streets gobsmacked after a video surfaced apparently showing how he had gifted his wives brand new Rolls-Royce vehicles.Investigative journalist Mzilikazi wa Africa shared a picture and video of what he described as the brand new buys for the king’s wives.While the monarch has over 13 wives, footage of the cars only shows a few of the similar-looking Rolls-Royces driving out of what seems like a compound, still with a few stickers indicative of their new nature.
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Hello Everyone!!
Many guys who have once disvrigined a girl have described the process as stressful with the girl groaning in pain throughout the process.
The is because many of you guys are not well-experienced enough when it comes to breaking the hymen. You all just know how
fvck hoes, you don’t know how to dig it
You don’t have to make a girl loose her virginity in a very horrible way, there is a sure way you can break a girl’s virginity that she will enjoy it with less pain.
Follow the rules below and you will come back with a testimony.
Below Are Rules To Taking A Girl’s Virginity Without Pain & Stress
RULE 1 :- Be careful not to expose yourself anyhow because your arousal and dick size might scare her. Most ladies find the first sight of a big erect pr!ck scary .
If she see gboola , she might japaa oo . Even if she managed to go on with scaring mind, she will tighten and that will make the whole thing unpleasant
RULE 2 :- A condom & sex oily lotion is necessary, make sure you masturbate your first round out before going on with this journey so it will be a smooth one for you too.
RULE 3 :- Give her a nice massage and make her feel pampered . kiss those cute nipples & nibble them gently
RULE 4 :- Kiss her on her tummy & she will moan , and then move very slowly downwards.
Remember she’s a virgin and every touch from you will make her body and soul to vibrate .
RULE 5 :- Rub your nose gently on her clit and your tongue touching her drips runway .
Then you run your fingers on her thigh. Oh my gosh, she’ll be shaking with her hands on your head
RULE 6 :- Run your touch down her vaginal lips (that’s second heaven boy ).
Get her pussy wet with the sex lotion & then run your tongue through her pussy lips awwwwwwn
RULE 7 :- Gently open her lips with your fingers and lick her clitoris slowly . Take your time and suck out that mint flavor from the clit .
This is the most intimate part. Her juices should be flowing as a virgin. You own that pussy already boy
RULE 8 :- While using your tongue and your fingers to arouse her very gently. You will see her vaginal lips swelling and they will also loosen.
She will definitely want more of you & the dick
RULE 9 :- Now is the time to gently position yourself between her legs. Carefully place your erect penis between her vaginal lips and apply very gentle pressure in and out.
The very first time, even if you go in an inch or less, that is good enough. Take it back & go again.
Keep repeating it again & again and trust me, it will be so boring to you, but who cares ‍ she’s enjoying it & that’s all that matters
RULE 10:- Don’t force your way in. If you have really aroused her, she will enjoy the pressure of you going in little by little .
Big head don’t push it with force !! You will destroy her mood & everything that you’ve hustle for, ode oshiii
RULE 11 :- After 30 mins of much work, you will be sure of 59% entrance and so you will breakthrough the HYMEN with a little sharp pain for her.
In some cases you will breakthrough it without even noticing. But surely, there will be a presence of blood to show she’s really a virgin
Try to end it by making her climax using your dick and if she is able to take your hard dick in for the first time, you can go all the way in.
RULE 12 :- After all the long work, you’re probably going to cum very quickly inside her, so if you don’t want her to get pregnant,
use a condom because first time sperm into a lady can be very effective.
The End!!
Please be very patient and considerate!! She will thank you for it forever and still come back

 

 

 

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