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If you’re looking for a serious, long-term relationship, you probably want to know that the person you’re dating is looking for and committed to the same thing.
If your partner says they aren’t looking for something serious, they’re probably telling the truth.
If they don’t seem to be entirely into your new, burgeoning, potential relationship, that’s likely the best sign you can get that they don’t intend to make things serious – now or ever.
When you’re ready for a more serious, long-term relationship and you start dating someone new, it’s not unusual to want to know if the person you’ve just started dating is on the same page.
Though you might not be able to know for sure, there are some subtle and obvious signs that might mean the person you’re dating doesn’t actually want a serious relationship. If you recognize these signs, having a conversation with your partner might help you find clarity.
They told you they weren’t interested in something serious
If the person you’ve started dating said that they’re not looking for anything serious, you should believe them. Chances are, they’re telling you the truth.
“While everyone wants to be the special person that shows them commitment is worth having, that’s more for the movies than real life,”
Theresa Herring, LMFT , a licensed marriage, and family therapist, told INSIDER. “So, if you’re looking for a fling, go ahead and have fun. But, if you’re looking for something serious, run in the other direction before you get your heart broken.”
You’re clearly not their priority
Getty/Chris J RatcliffeIf they’re not trying to make time for you, they might not be as interested in having a serious relationship.
When someone is looking for a more serious relationship, they often make the person they’re dating a priority. If that’s not happening, they might not be as serious about you as you may have thought.
“When a dating partner acts as if you are merely a convenience – they’re clearly showing that they’re not very serious,” Dr. Carla Marie Manly , a clinical psychologist, and author told INSIDER.
They’ve deliberately never introduced you to their friends or family
If your partner has a strained relationship with their family or has family that lives far away, it might make sense why you haven’t met them. But, if they deliberately keep you from the most important people in their lives, that might be a sign that they might not be planning a future with you.
Meeting your partner’s friends and family is oftentimes an important part of taking things from casual to a little more serious.
“When people are really into someone, they want to incorporate them into their lives,” Herring said. “When they are hesitant to introduce you, it often means that they have hesitation about you, the relationship, and/or the likelihood of a future together. If you’re looking to build a life with someone, you want to be included in their life. If you’re looking for something casual, this arrangement might work out just fine.”
They refuse to talk about the future
Oli Scarff/Getty Images It might be as simple as planning a weekend trip.
When you’re serious about someone, you make plans with them. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re talking about moving in together, marriage, or long-term commitments right away, but if they’re not willing to do things like plan a future vacation, that’s likely not a good sign. Manly said that this also shows that you’re not a priority in their life.
They’re not present when you’re together
Spending time with the person you’re dating should mean being mentally and emotionally present when you’re together. Heidi McBain, a licensed marriage and family therapist, told INSIDER that if the person you’re dating isn’t focused on you or seems distracted when you’re together, it could be an indication that they don’t plan to make the relationship serious.
They don’t want to meet your family or friends
Bringing the person you’re dating to meet your friends and family is also an important step in a relationship, especially if you’d like them to be part of your life for a while. If the person you’re dating seems to avoid meeting your favorite people, that’s not a great sign.
“Particularly in the early stages of dating, it’s easy for passion and fun to distort reality,” Manly said. She said it’s important to be aware of how you’re being treated once the beginning stage of the relationship begins to fade.
And, Manly said, it’s important to address these needs with the person you are dating.
They don’t seem to be as quick to respond to texts or calls or follow through with plans
leungchopan/Shutterstock If they keep postponing plans, it might mean they aren’t taking the relationship seriously.
If they keep postponing plans or taking a longer time than usual to respond to texts or calls, it could mean that they’re not as invested in the relationship and may not be planning to make things serious.
If the person you’re dating is ignoring or dismissing your requests and plans, Manly said you may want to move on to someone who will be a better match.
They’ve never been interested in a serious relationship before
Of course, someone might have a history of casual relationships and then decide they’re ready for something more serious, or vice versa. But, if they’ve never been interested in anything serious before, it could mean that they’re not going to make things serious with you either, Manly said.
The way you’ve acted in past relationships could inform how you act in current and future relationships, but it’s definitely not definite. Having a more detailed conversation with your partner could provide more clarity.
If the person you’re dating isn’t going to make things serious, but that’s what you want, you may want to have a conversation with them about it. And if you can’t figure out things together, but want to do what you can to make it work, working with a couples counselor might help.
If you can’t figure things out, finding someone who wants the same thing that you want ultimately might allow you to be happier and more satisfied in your relationship – and that’s worth waiting for.

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(18+) How To Dis-virgin A Girl Without Too Much Pain And Stress (A MUST READ)

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Hello Everyone!!
Many guys who have once disvrigined a girl have described the process as stressful with the girl groaning in pain throughout the process.
The is because many of you guys are not well-experienced enough when it comes to breaking the hymen. You all just know how
fvck hoes, you don’t know how to dig it
You don’t have to make a girl loose her virginity in a very horrible way, there is a sure way you can break a girl’s virginity that she will enjoy it with less pain.
Follow the rules below and you will come back with a testimony.
Below Are Rules To Taking A Girl’s Virginity Without Pain & Stress
RULE 1 :- Be careful not to expose yourself anyhow because your arousal and dick size might scare her. Most ladies find the first sight of a big erect pr!ck scary .
If she see gboola , she might japaa oo . Even if she managed to go on with scaring mind, she will tighten and that will make the whole thing unpleasant
RULE 2 :- A condom & sex oily lotion is necessary, make sure you masturbate your first round out before going on with this journey so it will be a smooth one for you too.
RULE 3 :- Give her a nice massage and make her feel pampered . kiss those cute nipples & nibble them gently
RULE 4 :- Kiss her on her tummy & she will moan , and then move very slowly downwards.
Remember she’s a virgin and every touch from you will make her body and soul to vibrate .
RULE 5 :- Rub your nose gently on her clit and your tongue touching her drips runway .
Then you run your fingers on her thigh. Oh my gosh, she’ll be shaking with her hands on your head
RULE 6 :- Run your touch down her vaginal lips (that’s second heaven boy ).
Get her pussy wet with the sex lotion & then run your tongue through her pussy lips awwwwwwn
RULE 7 :- Gently open her lips with your fingers and lick her clitoris slowly . Take your time and suck out that mint flavor from the clit .
This is the most intimate part. Her juices should be flowing as a virgin. You own that pussy already boy
RULE 8 :- While using your tongue and your fingers to arouse her very gently. You will see her vaginal lips swelling and they will also loosen.
She will definitely want more of you & the dick
RULE 9 :- Now is the time to gently position yourself between her legs. Carefully place your erect penis between her vaginal lips and apply very gentle pressure in and out.
The very first time, even if you go in an inch or less, that is good enough. Take it back & go again.
Keep repeating it again & again and trust me, it will be so boring to you, but who cares ‍ she’s enjoying it & that’s all that matters
RULE 10:- Don’t force your way in. If you have really aroused her, she will enjoy the pressure of you going in little by little .
Big head don’t push it with force !! You will destroy her mood & everything that you’ve hustle for, ode oshiii
RULE 11 :- After 30 mins of much work, you will be sure of 59% entrance and so you will breakthrough the HYMEN with a little sharp pain for her.
In some cases you will breakthrough it without even noticing. But surely, there will be a presence of blood to show she’s really a virgin
Try to end it by making her climax using your dick and if she is able to take your hard dick in for the first time, you can go all the way in.
RULE 12 :- After all the long work, you’re probably going to cum very quickly inside her, so if you don’t want her to get pregnant,
use a condom because first time sperm into a lady can be very effective.
The End!!
Please be very patient and considerate!! She will thank you for it forever and still come back

 

 

 

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AH AH!! Nigerian Woman Reveals How She Allowed Her Boyfriend Date Her Bestfriend (Read The Story)

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A woman, after being asked on Twitter, has revealed the craziest thing she ever did, to the shock of many.
A Nigerian woman simply identified as Funmi has shared a shocking relationship experience with a man she dated six years ago.
The lady revealed that her boyfriend at the time had come to her to confess that he was in love with her bestfriend. She found out later that the friend too also felt the same way for her boyfriend.
According to Funmi, she decided to remove herself from the relationship and watch her bestfriend and boyfriend build a relationship together under her nose.

 

 

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