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5 Steps To Deal With Guys Looking At Your Girlfriend



If you’re dating a beautiful woman, it
probably comes as no surprise that she’s
drawing the attention of a large number of
guys as you pass by together. As
complimentary as it may be, it’s natural to
feel uncomfortable and perhaps a little
peeved that several guys are ogling her
everywhere you go. Before
you blow a fuse, handle the situation with
care and learn how to deal with guys who
have their eye on your girlfriend.


Laugh it off . Take their attention for what it
is a
compliment and be happy that you’ve got a
woman by your side. When you notice some
guy making
googly eyes at your girlfriend, show him and
your sweetie
that a little innocent competition doesn’t
bother you. Give
the guy a little eye contact to show him you
see him
looking and keep moving.

Stay close. When you’re walking around in
the mall or at
a special event, don’t make the mistake of
walking so far
away from your girlfriend that she looks like
she’s single.
Stay close by so other guys know she’s not

Show affection. Give your onlookers a little
Practice a little PDA (public display of
affection) when
you’ve got a few guys looking your way. A
kiss or an
embrace will be just enough for the nosy
to only
wish they had what you’ve got. Be honest
with your
girlfriend though, and let her know what’s
going on to
maintain trust in your relationship.

Ask your girlfriend to chime in. If the looks
become a
problem, ask her to pipe in with a word or
two. She can
whisper to her fans that she’s taken or point
to you and
mention, “I love this guy.” The looks are
playful and
shouldn’t threaten your relationship. Have
fun with all the
attention and feel lucky that she’s drawing
the interest.

Enjoy it. As long as you have confidence in
relationship and you feel a solid connection,
shouldn’t be anything to worry about. Enjoy
the extra
attention and be proud that you’re dating a
beautiful girl.
Don’t allow the attention she attracts to
destroy your
sense of security in your relationship.

Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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