Almost any woman, no matter where and how
she lives, what her social and marital status is, at
least once in her life either faces the problem of
her man cheating or questions herself on
whether he is being unfaithful.
The portal YourTango represented by the lady-
journalist decided to address all women around the
world and explain why men cheat and how to prevent
What are the common reasons for the indecent
behaviour? He wants more spice in his sex life, he is
bored, he lacks attention from his second half, he
wants to exercise his freedom or he is just tired of
disappointing his partner. Some even attribute it to
biological factors that man is meant to procreate with
many women for the sake of preserving species.
However in many cases the two partners speak
different love languages, which can actually be solved
inside the couple, as like all human beings men have
an innate need to feel respected and also be a hero
for his second half.
These 10 tips will be definitely helpful for any woman
in relationships. So, how to prevent him from
1. Be the one who initiates sex
Sexual relationships is the one of the means to show
him he is loved and desired. Do not neglect the
physical contact as for our strongest halves
desirability is also associated with masculine power
2. Be open for experiments
Do not let comfort and fear of the unknown prevail
over you when it concerns new sexual experiences.
Allow yourselves to try something new. Unless you
do, he might eventually find another woman for
experiments. By “new” the author is not saying that
you should engage in sexual activity you find
repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things
with the man you love.
3. Don’t over-accommodate
Sometimes when the woman works hard to become
a perfect match for her partner, she becomes too
accommodating and might even lose herself. Thus
the man ends up in realizing that he got what he had
asked for but isn’t sure it’s what he really wants. Have
you ever noticed that men get into relationships with
a very clear picture of what a perfect woman should
be but casually date the “contrasting” women?
4.Too much control
Sometimes we get naughty and try to make our
relationships work the way WE want them to be. Thus
we engage in destructive relationship habits like
complaining, blaming, criticizing, etc. Here you
should focus on controlling yourself but not your
5. Let him see that you appreciate him
You found the right man, you “got” him, the thing is
done – he will be yours forever. Yes? No! Remember,
all relationships are voluntary and he can leave any
time. Even children is not always a reason for him to
stay. So show him your love, tell him about it and
make sure your man knows how important he is for
6. He needs time for himself
Did you know that some men cheat because they
consider it a means of exercising their freedom? To
avoid it allow your man time for himself without you.
Surely, girls love doing everything together with their
second halves, but you should be careful not to
monopolize all your guy’s time.
7. Be aware of your emotions
Whether or not we are aware of it, women are
masters at using their emotions to communicate
volumes without speaking any words. We
communicate anger, rage, sadness and
disappointment that is received by our partners.
Again, control is the answer. Remember: any person
gets tired of being a constant disappointment, not
8. Prioritize your relationship
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is
also having an “affair” that’s not sexual, but in the
form of prioritizing something else over relationship:
job, children or anything that puts her man lower on
her totem pole than the first position.
If he is your true love, other thing should fade away
and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it
Of course no article poses a universal solution to the
problem, as every relationship is unique and many
factors might can contribute to the split in the couple.
However we tend to make mistakes and it is
important to realize them because so only we can
stop repeating them over and over again.
Hopefully this article helped you to make some
mental notes for your bond to be sacred and happy!
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