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9 Reasons Some Nigerian Ladies Don’t Get Married

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Below Are The Reasons Some Nigerian Ladies Don’t Get Married:

1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure- it is so disheartening
how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from
morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home
chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the
role of women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at
destroying the unique African family setting that
made our previous African marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how
do you expect a African man to desire to marry when
he knows he is only buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-
minded men off- if you have observed, you will
discover that most men dislike excessive makeup,
and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often
times discourage their true loved ones to do away
with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many
men will applaud and complement you for looking
like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but
if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple
and natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded, except you are still living in your
high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick &
Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a
lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with
un serious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You
Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married
without contributing anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that
way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that
you can be a value and also add value to his life to
convince him that you are worth committing to.
Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or
material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best
friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not
just being a liability that only bring requests and
problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to
find a husband when you still allow your clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy
of your love and which is not? When will you wake up
and face the fact that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to be,
especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all
cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain
things or privileges they had been constantly denied
while being single. Such privileges include and not
limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good
food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man
gets even the best and of course more of constant
s*x, good food and excellent home-keeping more
than his married counterparts, so tell me how the
hell you want him to desire to marry you when you
have given him virtually everything he desires from a
wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to
cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc
once he marries you, so why would he not want you
to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to
look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys,
you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact
you look more whorish than modest; more
unattractive than attractive, and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress high school,
only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to
you, and if you dress excessively sexy and
provocative, only randy men will come to you for
urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge, so
don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of
dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you
wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for
a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty
girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both
the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would stay or
run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order
words, do away with nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality
of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie
devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies
today, please do away with it.

Abass Sulaiman Adegoke, well known as Adegoke is a student of Federal Polytechnic Ede studying Civil Engineering, He is a media enthusiast, loves traveling, and has a special interest in personal development.

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