Among the many factors that play a key role in making your love story a happy one, it is perhaps a little difficult to evaluate compatibility. Because this is one factor that, unlike money, you cannot count (yes, money plays a big role too) or feel it like physical attraction. According to relationship experts, asking the right questions can assess compatibility thereby helping a couple to determine the strength of their love life. So, here are seven questions to ask a partner to test the compatibility you both share:
How do you like to spend your free time?
You might be thinking what does your free time have to do with compatibility? Trust us, this seemingly unimportant question can play a huge role in determining your compatibility. Imagine this: suppose you like to go on a walk during your free time but your partner chooses to spend the free hours indoors and read books or watch the television, do you think you would be able to compromise with your outdoor activities to give company to your partner? The answer to this question apparently has a lot to do with the long-term fate of your relationship.
What is the most interesting thing you have read recently?
A question about a person’s reading habit reveals a lot about his or her intellectual interests. According to experts, conversation plays a key role in bringing two people together and the lack of it can also draw them apart. Interestingly, reading habits reflect on the topic of conversation people choose. Moreover, intellectual compatibility is also a factor to consider between two partners and nothing can determine that better than what a person reads, isn’t it?
Do you believe in God? Or What is your spiritual belief?
A person’s spiritual faith or his belief on the existence of God or a supreme being is a big part of his individuality. Although religion may not be a ground for a break-up but a person’s views on life and about right and wrong doings can be a bone of contentment when two people start living together.
If you win a jackpot, what will you do with the money?
Love is blind and no wonder, we stop being practical when we are bitten by the love bug. The answer to this question will give you an idea about the spending habit of your partner. Remember, while love is the food for your soul and heart, money gets you the food to feed your stomach.
What is your definition of cheating?
Every person has a different definition of cheating. For some kissing a third person might be a grave offence whereas for others it might not be such a serious issue to worry about. So, if you do not agree to what your partner counts as cheating in a relationship, would you be happy to spend your lifetime with him?
What turns you on sexually?
Sexual compatibility is as important as emotional compatibility in a relationship. This question would help you to evaluate the sexual drive of your partner and thereby you can decide whether you would be comfortable with it or not.
What matters most? Family or work?
Now, this is a tricky question and how the person answers this, will help you understand how he will handle a difficult situation. Suppose, your partner chooses just one option and says that family matters the most without even thinking about it, this might be a sign of his immaturity. And if work is preferred over family, it means your partner might have a difficult time balancing work and life. So, how he or she answers this question is more important that the real answer itself.
Source: Daily Advent
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